I had a very good weekend, but have been ill today so cannot really write. It is Younger Son’s birthday and the first one where he hasn’t been with us, so that feels rather strange. I hope that I feel better tomorrow!
Best wishes,
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I had a very good weekend, but have been ill today so cannot really write. It is Younger Son’s birthday and the first one where he hasn’t been with us, so that feels rather strange. I hope that I feel better tomorrow!
Best wishes,
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I am feeling pretty pleased because I actually made it to my counselling appointment and, afterwards, we went to a pub for lunch! This feels like a really positive achievement 😁😁😁.
I really needed the counselling as I had a lot to talk through. This week has been very peaceful with Elder Son away, but he will soon be back and I need to be prepared for his “enthusiasm” when he returns tomorrow. He will need loads of hugs and also to tell me all about his adventures in great detail. That can get very exhausting, judging by previous experiences, and I need to be strong so that I can fully engage with him.
We tried out a new place for lunch. It was so lovely to be out together and we had such a great time chatting to each other. The food, however, was slow, meagre and very badly cooked, apart from the chips, which were scrumptious! We will not be going back as there are loads of nice places to eat around here that we have discovered over the eighteen years we have lived in the area.
I chose a very bright and cheerful outfit, based on this cute Hermès Bibliothèque gavroche, which I have often shown on here. I really love the combination with cobalt blue.

Outfit of the day 02/08/19 with Hermès’ Bibliothéque gavroche
Today’s outfit:
The weather is lovely at the moment. Not too hot, but sunny and quite fresh. I hope that you all have a really wonderful weekend, wherever in the world you are.
Best wishes,
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Can you believe it! I actually forgot to write a post today. My book was so absorbing that I couldn’t put it down. Then I had my dinner, did my usual evening random blog and forum reading, and answered some emails. A few minutes ago, I was trying to remember something that was in the back of my mind. Something I needed to do…
Oops!
Best wishes,
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So, we have arrived at the last reading post of July already! I am not well today, so this will be a rather basic version of the usual roundup. I finished two books last week, as I was rather distracted with other things, but now have a huge pile of library books, that I chose on Monday, to enjoy.

The Heavens by Sandra Newman
The first book of the week was The Heavens by Sandra Newman. Here is the blurb:
New York, late summer, 2000. A party in a spacious Manhattan apartment, hosted by a wealthy young activist. Dozens of idealistic twenty-somethings have impassioned conversations over takeout dumplings and champagne. The evening shines with the heady optimism of a progressive new millennium. A young man, Ben, meets a young woman, Kate—and they begin to fall in love.
From their first meeting, Ben knows Kate is unworldly and fanciful, so at first he isn’t that concerned when she tells him about the recurring dream she’s had since childhood. In the dream, she’s transported to the past, where she lives a second life as Emilia, the mistress of a nobleman in Elizabethan England.
But for Kate, the dream becomes increasingly real and compelling until it threatens to overwhelm her life. And soon she’s waking from it to find the world changed—pictures on her wall she doesn’t recognize, new buildings in the neighborhood that have sprung up overnight. As she tries to make sense of what’s happening, Ben worries the woman he’s fallen in love with is losing her grip on reality.
I gave the book three stars on the Goodreads site and wrote the following review:
I don’t really know how to categorise this odd book or how to review it adequately. It reminds me of a short story by Ray Bradbury in which a man time travels back to the age of the dinosaurs, accidentally kills a butterfly and, when he returns to his own time, everything has subtly changed. This book has a similar theme, or does it? Is the main character mentally ill instead? The book gripped me in some parts and annoyed me in others. I almost put it down, but decided to finish it in the end. If you like Doctor Who, you may enjoy this book!

Only Killers and Thieves by Paul Howarth
My second book of the week was another departure from my usual menu of fantasy, science fiction and thrillers. This time the book was set in Australia in the final years of the 19th and early years of the 20th century: Only Killers and Thieves by Paul Howarth. This is the blurb:
It is 1885 and the McBride family are trying to survive a crippling drought that is slowly eroding their lives and hopes: their cattle are starved, and the family can no longer purchase the supplies they need on their depleted credit. When the rain finally comes, it’s a miracle. For a moment, the scrubland flourishes and the remote swimming hole fills. Returning home from an afternoon swim, fourteen-year-old Tommy and sixteen-year-old Billy McBride discover a scene of heartbreaking carnage: their dogs dead in the yard, their hardworking father and mother shot to death, and their precocious younger sister unconscious and severely bleeding from a wound to her gut. The boys believe the killer is their former Aboriginal stockman, and, desperate to save Mary, they rush her to John Sullivan, the wealthiest landowner in the region and their father’s former employer, who promises to take care of them.
Eager for retribution, the distraught brothers fall sway to Sullivan, who persuades them to join his posse led by the Queensland Native Police, an infamous arm of British colonial power whose sole purpose is the “dispersal” of indigenous Australians to “protect” settler rights. The group is led by the intimidating inspector Edmund Noone, a dangerous and pragmatic officer whose intellect and ruthlessness both fascinates and unnerves the watchful Tommy. Riding for days across the barren outback, the group is determined to find the perpetrators they insist are guilty, for reasons neither of the brothers truly understands. It is a harsh and horrifying journey that will have a devastating impact on Tommy, tormenting him for the rest of his life—and hold enduring consequences for a young country struggling to come into its own.
This was an excellent and hard-hitting book well-deserving four stars. This is my review:
This book is supremely well written, but I cannot say that I enjoyed reading it as the story is so brutal. It is like American Westerns in that a main part of the plot concerns the horrible treatment of indigenous people and the vile prejudice and racism of white settlers. It is also a coming of age story for the two teenage boys, Billy and Tommy, at the centre of the tale. The landscape of the Australian outback is brilliantly depicted and acts like another character. The reality of what happened to the boys’ family was not a surprise for me as I had already worked it out as was the author’s intention, I am sure. Unlike some other reviewers, I did like the ending despite the slight sense of foreboding.
This is a book well worth reading and an amazing debut.
I haven’t quite decided which book to tackle next, so will leave that discovery until next week!
Until then, Happy Reading to you all and best wishes,
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Those of you who have been following this blog for a while will know that I have an interest in the ancient world dating back to my student days, when I read Ancient History and Archaeology at university. My particular areas are the art and architecture of Ancient Greece, Rome and Egypt. When I began to collect Hermès scarves, I simply chose ones that I liked from the current season’s offer on the official website. Eventually, I ventured forth to sites like Vestiaire and Videdressing before braving eBay. A common theme began to emerge as I found scarves linked to my interests: Mare Nostrum, Persepolis, Les Secrets de Minos, and Escales Mediterranéenes joined my first ever H scarf, La Promenade de Platon. I have been keeping an eye open for others and, recently, Musique des Dieux appeared on eBay at a good price.
Musique des Dieux was designed for Hermès Autumn/Winter 1996 season by Claudia Stuhlhofer-Mayr. It depicts the Music of the Gods: music and dance of mythical Ancient Greece. (The colours in the slideshow below are the closest to real life).

Musique des Dieux by Claudia Stuhlhofer-Mayr for Hermè
The design has been created in a range of formats. I have the 90cm silk twill in shades of purple, blue, green, white and black. This colourway is very cool and elegant; others are bright and opulent and the scarves and shawls look very different according to the shades used. I do not have the code number for my version and would be very grateful if anyone could pass it on.
The Musique des Dieux design uses a central circle to frame the mythical scene of the meeting between the God Pan and the nymph Syrinx. Around this is a frieze, made up of four scenes contained within rectangular bordered shapes with fauns, satyrs, centaurs, nymphs and the God Hermès, dancing and playing musical instruments. Each of the four corners of the scarf have square frames with Greek key pattern borders containing named musical instruments. The words are written using the Greek alphabet.
The outer borders of the scarf have beribboned wreaths of leaves and fruit from a different plant on each of the four sides: ivy, grape vines, laurel and olive. Oak leaves with acorns surround the central frame. Four tiny key patterned squares are set at the outermost corners.
The colours of my version of the scarf are used very subtly. The figures are in black and white and are drawn in a similar way to those on Athenian Black-Figure vases. The background to these figures is a pale lilac and instruments, foliage and columns are touched with mauve and blue. The leaves and fruits are in muted greens with the ribbons shading from lilac to mauve. The edge patterns to the frames are picked out in black, white and pale blues.
The design has been offered as a silk twill 90cm scarf, a cashmere/silk 140cm shawl, bracelets and also other formats such as cushions, plissé scarves etc. So far, I have found photos of scarves/shawls in these colourways, although I am sure that more were available. They are not easy to find in image types suitable for this post.
Here we have some other formats:
The story is told how Syrinx, an Arcadian nymph and the model of virtue, once changed herself into reeds to escape the attentions of the great Pan. The frolicsome, but wily god, however, cut these same reeds and formed them into a rustic flute, whose plaintive accents still pipe to us the frustration of the swain and the breathlessness of the beauty. Fauns, nymphs, satyrs, centaurs and the god Hermès in person, make a frieze to frame this primeval drama of sexual harassment.
Here are some closeups of my scarf in a slideshow format:
I have only worn the scarf once so far and here is the resulting collage. As I wear it more, I will add the collages here. The scarf, as you can see, looks great with purple clothes and I will also wear it with white and, perhaps, navy. Black would work well, but I don’t wear that colour these days!

Outfit of the day 24/05/19 with Hermès’ Musique des Dieux scarf
These are a few quick ties that I made to show the details and colours of the scarf. As the scarf is quite “well used” it is very soft, so works quite well with ties such as the waterfall knot. It is also quite versatile as there is interest all over the design, from the central scene, to the friezes, the foliage borders and also the corners.

Musique des Dieux – scarf ties
1) Top row L to R: criss-cross knot, cowl knot, waterfall knot.
2) Middle row L to R: cowboy cowl, asymmetric wrap, half bow knot.
3) Bottom row L to R: asymmetric wrap, collar knot, cowboy knot.
Scarf ring used above is mother-of-pearl by MaiTai.
To follow the design of the scarf, I first researched some background information about Syrinx and Pan:
Wikipedia
Syrinx
Article about Syrinx the nymph and the pipes bearing her name.
Greek Legends and Myths
The Naiad Syrinx in Greek Mythology
Short illustrated article.
J. Paul Getty Museum
Pan and Syrinx
Shows an eighteenth century painting of the mythical meeting by Jean-François de Troy, with a short explanation.
Now a few links and videos about Ancient Greek music and musical instruments:
Wikipedia
Music of Ancient Greece
Usual style of Wikipedia article.
The Conversation
Ancient Greek music: now we finally know what it sounded like
Interesting article with illustrations and videos explaining recent discoveries.
Hellenicaworld
Ancient Greek Music by Michael Lahanas
Very detailed article with interesting images. Quite an old fashioned looking web page, but the information appears to be comprehensive.
Kotsanas Museum of Ancient Greek Technology
The Musical Instruments of Ancient Greeks
Very comprehensive list of the instruments with short explanations.
List of Instrument Info
Music of Ancient Greece
List of Ancient Greek musical instruments.
I hope readers have found this exploration of Musique des Dieux both interesting and useful. Once again, if you find any errors or have any additional information that I could add, please don’t hesitate to contact me.
Best wishes,
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Well, I am in bed writing this post, feeling rather chuffed. I have been out! Hooray!
First of all, Lovely Husband took me to the Library to choose a huge pile of books and pick up a reservation, then we went to B & Q to get some new brooms and a bucket, and finally we drove to one of the local garden centres for a cup of tea! Yes, I know you are all having exotic holidays all over the place (and I am insanely jealous), but this feels like the trip of the year for me! You can tell by the exuberant use of exclamation marks.
This is an outfit that I planned to wear last week, but couldn’t. It has been sunny and warm today, after the near monsoon conditions of the weekend (only slightly exaggerating). Apparently it is going to rain quite a lot during the rest of the week. Anyway, this outfit combines some of my absolute favourite colours: turquoise, navy and white. I don’t have a good image of the long cardigan, but, believe me, the colour is gorgeous and tones beautifully with the earrings, necklace and bangle. To finish the outfit, I carried my lovely navy blue metallic leather midi-zip Selene handbag by Massaccesi.

Outfit of the day 29/07/19
Today’s outfit:
Elder Son is away this week, so Lovely Husband and I are enjoying the peace and quiet. Actually, I am really missing him because he is such a great help to me (when in the right mood) and a champion hugger! LH is getting a bit overwhelmed by extra hugs 😀🤗😁.
I am currently trying to research and build a Scarf of the Moment post about the Hermès’ Musique des Dieux scarf that I bought a while ago. It is proving quite difficult to find very much about it because it was issued in 1996. Anyway, I hope to have the post ready for upload later in the week. I really enjoy compiling these types of post and I can see from the site statistics they are popular with visitors!
Best wishes,
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This steaming hot weather in the UK has made me very ill. I am unable to post today, but I hope that everything will return to something like normal next week.
Best wishes to you all and happy weekend!
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I am going to show you my outfit, but not me wearing it! That’s because I am so hot and sticky and must look pretty awful 😂🤣😂!
I bought this turquoise linen dress from Pure Collection a couple of years ago. The colour is nice, but the weave is very loose and it looks like a sack on me. I don’t really care about that as I only wear it in the house and garden and it does keep me quite cool. It is good for wafting – a word used a lot on one of my favourite blogs: That’s Not My Age. As I have given up wearing a bra (I have always hated them and decided to throw them all away when I retired), the dress is opaque enough to hide anything that might be embarrassing too!

Turquoise washed linen tunic by Pure Collection
My only adornment today is the cute teapot, cup and saucer necklace from Bill Skinner that I bought a few months ago. The heat is even cutting down on my tea drinking as I have switched over to water, mainly!

Teapot and Cup necklace by Bill Skinner
I can never resist the Lands’ End sales, especially the main ones in the Summer and Winter. I really tried to ignore the present one and hung on until a few days ago, when I gave in. As a huge fan of The Vivienne Files blog, I have really taken on board some of her ideas about wardrobe planning. The colours I favour have changed a little since I grew out my grey hair, but I think that I am happy now with my choices. My two main base colours are navy and grey; my accent colours are bright blue, turquoise/teal/aqua, purple/lavender/lilac, and bright pink. Looking at my wardrobe, I realised that a couple of long-sleeved t-shirts in bright blues would be very versatile additions. Here they are:

Long-sleeved, supima, v neck, t-shirts – Lands’ End
The fabric is a very fine supima cotton jersey with a soft and silky feel. I will use both as t-shirts in Spring and late Summer/early Autumn, then as base layers in colder months and also in bed with more traditional pyjama bottoms. As they only cost £7.50 each, I think I will get my money’s worth out of them!
Apparently, tomorrow will be cooler. I hope so as I really want to attend my counselling session.
Best wishes,
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Well, last week’s reading was much more successful than the week before’s. I definitely chose the right books this time!

Year One by Nora Roberts
The first book of the week was Year One (Chronicles of the One #01) by Nora Roberts. Here is the blurb:
It began on New Year’s Eve.
The sickness came on suddenly, and spread quickly. The fear spread even faster. Within weeks, everything people counted on began to fail them. The electrical grid sputtered; law and government collapsed–and more than half of the world’s population was decimated.
Where there had been order, there was now chaos. And as the power of science and technology receded, magic rose up in its place. Some of it is good, like the witchcraft worked by Lana Bingham, practicing in the loft apartment she shares with her lover, Max. Some of it is unimaginably evil, and it can lurk anywhere, around a corner, in fetid tunnels beneath the river–or in the ones you know and love the most.
As word spreads that neither the immune nor the gifted are safe from the authorities who patrol the ravaged streets, and with nothing left to count on but each other, Lana and Max make their way out of a wrecked New York City. At the same time, other travelers are heading west too, into a new frontier. Chuck, a tech genius trying to hack his way through a world gone offline. Arlys, a journalist who has lost her audience but uses pen and paper to record the truth. Fred, her young colleague, possessed of burgeoning abilities and an optimism that seems out of place in this bleak landscape. And Rachel and Jonah, a resourceful doctor and a paramedic who fend off despair with their determination to keep a young mother and three infants in their care alive.
In a world of survivors where every stranger encountered could be either a savage or a savior, none of them knows exactly where they are heading, or why. But a purpose awaits them that will shape their lives and the lives of all those who remain.
The end has come. The beginning comes next.
I found this quick to read, and quite easy, despite the darker elements. I awarded it three stars and wrote the following review on Goodreads:
I rate this as 3.5 really. This is a strange book. I did enjoy reading it and I will almost certainly reserve the series at the library. It did feel a bit like two books cut and shunted together. The first half is more like a science fiction doomsday story (see what I did there: Doom/doomsday?). The second part brings in elements of fantasy (fairies and elves?). It all felt as if it had all been done before, but the book was entertaining enough to keep me reading and the plot twists were good.
So, not a bad book, and worth reading.
Wrath by John Gwynne
So, this was a reasonable book to start off my reading week. After this, my next book rose up into the stratosphere, in comparison! Wrath by John Gwynne is the final part (#04) in his The Faithful and the Fallen series. What an ending! This is the blurb:
Events are coming to a climax in the Banished Lands, as the war reaches new heights. King Nathair has taken control of the fortress at Drassil and three of the Seven Treasures are in his possession. And together with Calidus and his ally Queen Rhin, Nathair will do anything to obtain the remaining Treasures. With all seven under his command, he can open a portal to the Otherworld. Then Asroth and his demon-horde will finally break into the Banished Lands and become flesh.
Meanwhile Corban has been taken prisoner by the Jotun, warrior giants who ride their enormous bears into battle. His warband scattered, Corban must make new allies if he hopes to survive. But can he bond with competing factions of warlike giants? Somehow he must, if he’s to counter the threat Nathair represents.
His life hangs in the balance – and with it, the fate of the Banished Lands.
I read all four of these books over quite a short short period of time. They are all very long, but well-worth the effort, in my opinion, if you are a fan of Epic Fantasy. I really loved this final book and gave it the full five stars. This is my review:
I have just finished and put down this book and am writing this review before reading any others, so that it is my true reaction.
First of all, I have to say a huge “thank you” to the author, John Gwynne, for this book and the whole series. Wrath has now joined my “favourites”, where it will stay. The book is totally fabulous and a worthy and fitting end to a great series.
I have read a lot of good fantasy writing over the last few years, thanks to my local library, and this book must rank amongst the best. The very things that irritated me slightly about the previous books in the series, worked really well this time: the short(ish) chapters and the quick switching of view points. They really helped to keep the amazing pace of the plot going. I think that I probably spent the whole of this huge book (I read the hardback copy, so it is huge) with my heart thumping in my chest.
So, now I am sad. Sad that some favourite characters met their end, sad for the tragedies and pathos, but mainly sad that I have finished this book and completed the whole series. John, what can I read next?
Now, I will go and read some of the other reviews!
Ooh, I am very excited because John Gwynne himself has “liked” my review! He seems to follow his fans on Goodreads, which is nice. I can’t wait to read another book by him.

The Silence of the Girls by Pat Barker
My final book of the week was an ebook from our library’s digital service: The Silence of the Girls by Pat Barker. First the blurb:
The ancient city of Troy has withstood a decade under siege of the powerful Greek army, which continues to wage bloody war over a stolen woman—Helen. In the Greek camp, another woman—Briseis—watches and waits for the war’s outcome. She was queen of one of Troy’s neighboring kingdoms, until Achilles, Greece’s greatest warrior, sacked her city and murdered her husband and brothers. Briseis becomes Achilles’s concubine, a prize of battle, and must adjust quickly in order to survive a radically different life, as one of the many conquered women who serve the Greek army.
When Agamemnon, the brutal political leader of the Greek forces, demands Briseis for himself, she finds herself caught between the two most powerful of the Greeks. Achilles refuses to fight in protest, and the Greeks begin to lose ground to their Trojan opponents. Keenly observant and coolly unflinching about the daily horrors of war, Briseis finds herself in an unprecedented position, able to observe the two men driving the Greek army in what will become their final confrontation, deciding the fate not only of Briseis’s people but also of the ancient world at large.
Briseis is just one among thousands of women living behind the scenes in this war—the slaves and prostitutes, the nurses, the women who lay out the dead—all of them erased by history. With breathtaking historical detail and luminous prose, Pat Barker brings the teeming world of the Greek camp to vivid life. She offers nuanced, complex portraits of characters and stories familiar from mythology, which, seen from Briseis’s perspective, are rife with newfound revelations. Barker’s latest builds on her decades-long study of war and its impact on individual lives—and it is nothing short of magnificent.
I was so totally immersed in this book that I couldn’t put it down and read it all in one go. Once again, I gave it the full five stars and wrote this review when I was feeling very emotional:
This book is simply stunning. As a student, I read parts of The Iliad in Ancient Greek and ever since I have been interested in the story and have often read retellings. As a feminist I am, of course, highly aware that history is the story of the winners, particularly men. History is the story of royal houses, the aristocracy, wars and battles, heroes and villains. It is very rarely the story of women. Women are often nameless and faceless. They appear in history for a few scenes, then we never hear what happens to them.
In this book, Pat Barker gives a voice to Briseis, who is named in the Iliad. She tells us a part of her story and the story of other women enslaved by the Greeks as they battle before Troy. The men treat women like objects, like mere stuff, just as they do the treasures that they have plundered from conquered cities.
I read this book with tears in my eyes, thinking about the fate of so many women and girls. Older women watching their sons killed in battles, their daughters slaughtered, their babies killed. Young women parcelled off to brutal men, torn from their families and homes. Yet, tales like The Iliad are seen by so many as heroic and noble! Instead they are the stories of mass murderers.
I think I had better finish writing this before I weep once again. This is a brilliant book and highly recommended.
Now that I can read other reviews more dispassionately, it is interesting to see how differently some readers react to a book like this. Why not see for yourselves by reading some of the responses on Goodreads and other similar sites?

The Heavens by Sandra Newman
My next book, which I will tell you about next week, is The Heavens by Sandra Newman. Until then…
Happy Reading and best wishes to you all!
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I am much better today. Usually, I manage to keep a grip on my feelings and immerse myself in reading to try to hold the negative thoughts at bay. My weekly counselling sessions also help a lot as I am able to off-load to a neutral person.
Yesterday, everything came spilling out on someone who has their own issues and who puts them aside in order to support me. Lovely Husband is so very brave. He has had severe disabilities for many years but somehow manages to keep going for his family.
My sons also do their best to help me and friends, though they are online and not nearby, are also really appreciated. You know who you are! Thank you to everyone for your support.

Silver Lining by Kylir Horton
I hope that I can pull myself out of the gloom and post more positively for the rest of the week. As you can imagine, I doubt whether I will be writing Outfit of the Day posts this week. We are having a heatwave in the UK and I find weather like this almost unbearable. At the moment, I am lying on my bed wearing not very much – a selfie would definitely be inappropriate! I really wish I could live near the sea!
I will have some books to write about tomorrow for the weekly Reading Roundup post.
Best wishes,
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