Update 29/11/18 with blogging thoughts

We had really stormy weather this morning and it felt so comforting to snuggle under the duvet, occasionally emerging to sip tea from a pretty mug. I had a fairly nasty coughing attack last night but managed to go downstairs today for an hour or so. We watched the new series – Mrs Wilson – which was really intriguing. I am looking forward to the next episode already. After that, I returned to my bed and have been reading all afternoon.

I have been thinking about this blog’s purpose and future for a couple of weeks. I am sorry if visitors to this blog are finding my posts rather boring nowadays. It was started in January 2016 as a way of practising my writing again and to give me something to help distract my mind from severe depression. I certainly didn’t expect to attract so many visitors and it has been lovely to correspond with some of you via comments. Unfortunately, my health has continued to deteriorate and my world is becoming smaller and smaller. I cannot write about exciting holidays or wonderful days out with spectacular scenery as my days are mainly spent indoors. Politics and feminist issues also interest me, but I want to keep that side of my life away from this blog as I would rather not attract the attention of unpleasant trolls. So, I will continue to blog my days, my thoughts and blingy purchases!

When I do buy another Hermès scarf, I will write a scarf profile post as soon as I can gather enough material – a post about Coup de Fouet is in the pipeline. I also have plans to write something about my two favourite Liberty of London designs: Hera and Ianthe. I am sure that other ideas will come to me from time to time.

Anyway, here is a quick photo of today’s outfit. I decided to try the lovely and very showy butterfly brooch with my aqua cashmere jumper and I think that they worked very nicely together:

Outfit of the day 29/11/18 with Sonrisa butterfly brooch

Outfit of the day 29/11/18 with Sonrisa butterfly brooch

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 28/11/18

I read two books this week; one was really enjoyable and the other, well… read on to find out my verdict!

All By Myself, Alone by Mary Higgins Clark

All By Myself, Alone by Mary Higgins Clark

My first book of the week was All By Myself, Alone by Mary Higgins Clark. Here is the blurb:

Fleeing a disastrous and humiliating arrest of her husband-to-be on the eve of their wedding, Celia Kilbride, a gems and jewelry expert, hopes to escape from public attention by lecturing on a brand-new cruise ship—the Queen Charlotte.

On board she meets eighty-six-year-old Lady Emily Haywood, “Lady Em,” as she is known throughout the world. Immensely wealthy, Lady Em is the owner of a priceless emerald necklace that she intends to leave to the Smithsonian after the cruise.

Three days out to sea Lady Em is found dead—and the necklace is missing. Is it the work of her apparently devoted assistant, Brenda Martin, or her lawyer-executor, Roger Pearson, and his wife, Yvonne, both of whom she had invited to join them on the cruise? Or is it Professor Henry Longworth, an acclaimed Shakespeare scholar who is lecturing on board? Or Alan Davidson, a guest on the ship who is planning to spread his wife’s ashes at sea? The list of suspects is large and growing.

Celia, with the help of her new friends Willy and Alvirah Meehan, who are celebrating their forty-fifth wedding anniversary, sets out to find the killer, not realizing that she has put herself in mortal danger before the ship reaches its final destination.

I decided to read something light and easy, which sounds an odd description of a murder-mystery! My review on Goodreads may shed some light:

Well, I have classified this as a mystery as I thought that the author probably intended it to be, but I guessed the “baddie” after a few pages! The only reason I bothered to finish this book was because it was light reading and I wasn’t well. This is simply a very badly written book, full of stereotypes and lazy plotting. My recommendation is: don’t bother.

Yes, I only gave this book one star!

The Painted Man by Peter V Brett

The Painted Man by Peter V Brett

My second read of the week was much more successful. This is the blurb for Peter V Brett’s The Painted Man, #01 in his Demon Cycle series:

As darkness falls after sunset, the corelings rise—demons who possess supernatural powers and burn with a consuming hatred of humanity. For hundreds of years the demons have terrorized the night, slowly culling the human herd that shelters behind magical wards—symbols of power whose origins are lost in myth and whose protection is terrifyingly fragile. It was not always this way. Once, men and women battled the corelings on equal terms, but those days are gone. Night by night the demons grow stronger, while human numbers dwindle under their relentless assault. Now, with hope for the future fading, three young survivors of vicious demon attacks will dare the impossible, stepping beyond the crumbling safety of the wards to risk everything in a desperate quest to regain the secrets of the past. Together, they will stand against the night.

Oh, I really enjoy a rollicking read like this one! I gave it four stars and wrote the following review:

I really love the kind of book which immerses the reader so far into a fantasy world that the real world fades into the background. This is just that kind of book, for me. The kind of book where you simply shed any disbelief and join in the adventure.

The tale follows three main characters as they grow up and develop into young adults along the way. Fearsome demons visit their world at night, causing terror, mayhem and death to the people, who fight or cower away according to their strength of character. The world building in this book is excellent and many of the secondary characters are well drawn too. There are some plot holes and logic flaws, but I enjoyed engaging in the story.

Since I finished the book, I have put in several requests at the library for the rest of the series. The next book is already awaiting collection 😀.

The rest of the books in my to-read pile seem to be very thick, for some reason. Years ago, my parents used to choose books for me according to their thickness as I read so fast, even as a child. Anyway, my next read will be Echo City by Tim Lebbon and I will give you my verdict next week.

Happy Reading to you all!

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 27/11/18

Oh, it has been such a nasty wet day! I am feeling quite pleased, though, as I have completed quite a few useful tasks for once. We are madly trying to get all of our household/family paperwork in order and, as I am the go-to computer person in this house, it is my job to do all of the creating, formatting, updating and editing of our documents and files. I have realised that I also need to make some time to backup everything to the cloud as soon as possible.

I decided to dig out and old, but favourite, cowl neck cashmere jumper today. It is a lovely heathered aqua colour that never photographs accurately. Yet again, my iPad camera turns the colour to blue. So annoying!

Outfit of the day 27/11/18 with pearls

Outfit of the day 27/11/18 with pearls

Today’s outfit:

  • Aqua cashmere cowl neck jumper – Marks and Spencer.
  • Navy cotton stretch cord trousers – Land’s end.
  • Pearl stud earrings – John Lewis.
  • Long string of pearls – John Lewis.
  • Cream and eau-de-nil enamel and gold Agama bangle – Halcyon Days. My jumper almost matches the colour in this bangle!

I have a few other items to show you. First of all the other two items that I bought from Sainsbury’s last week: grey leggings with zips. These are in a versatile charcoal colour…

Grey leggings with zips - Sainsbury's Tu

Grey leggings with zips – Sainsbury’s Tu

Then these cute owl earrings. I really love owls!

Owl earrings - Sainsbury’s Tu

Owl earrings – Sainsbury’s Tu

Now my birthday present from my sister: this glamorous sparkly scarf in cool blue and silver:

Sparkly blue scarf

Sparkly blue scarf

Yes, I really do love clothes and accessories and colour!

Best wishes,

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Update 26/11/18 with some recent purchases

I am in bed again today, so I won’t do an Outfit of the Day with my old pyjamas! There are, however, some purchases from last week to show you. On Tuesday, I popped into Sainsbury’s after my hair appointment and had a quick wander around. They were having a 25% off clothing sale and I picked up a few items: a pretty jumper, some grey leggings and a pair of earrings. At the moment, I seem to be having some issues with getting this iPad to save images and so I haven’t managed to get pictures of the leggings or the earrings. It is too gloomy today to take photos, so I will try to upload some later in the week. I have got images of the jumper and my modelling shot.

Jumper in grey, ivory and blue - Sainsbury’s Tu

Jumper in grey, ivory and blue – Sainsbury’s Tu

This jumper is lovely and snuggly. The yarn is very soft in pretty shades of ivory, grey and a cool blue. I am trying out greys in preparation for purchasing some clothing basics in grey as another neutral alongside navy and I think that this jumper looks quite nice with my hair and general colouring.

Mylee Waterproof Insulated Jacket - Regatta

Mylee Waterproof Insulated Jacket – Regatta

In addition, I was able to finally buy myself a new coat in navy when we went to the garden centre. My old waterproof warm winter coat had finally given up the ghost this year and so I really needed a replacement. Even if I don’t go outside very often, I do still need something suitable for cold and wet weather when I do leave the house. My requirements were waterproof and wind proof, warm, navy, thigh length and not very expensive. I was able to find this one from Regatta and if you are also searching for something similar, you will see that they have loads available at reduced prices (at the time of writing) on their website.

Best wishes,

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Wardrobe planning #30: Changing colours when your hair is grey

Last week, The Purse Forum had a Scarf of the Day theme (11 Nov 2018 IMPULSE BUYS: Rave or Regret? (Show us a scarf you’ve never worn!)), that got me thinking. When I first started purchasing more expensive designer scarves, my hair was dyed a kind of strawberry blonde. I invested in clothes and accessories that looked good with my colouring, both facial and hair. So, I bought scarves in warmer shades, including coral, gold, yellow, beige and brown. Now that I have grown out my natural hair, my greys range from silver through to charcoal. So I have a question:

Do all of my scarves still work for me?

L: Au Coeur de la Vie, R: Daimyo Princes du Soleil Levant

L: Au Coeur de la Vie, R: Daimyo Princes du Soleil Levant

I decided to look at two Hermès scarves in particular: Au Coeur de la Vie and Daimyo Princes du Soleil Levant. My colourway of Au Coeur de la Vie has a border in a very strong and vibrant yellow. The wonderful design of jungle plants and animals are in gorgeous shades of turquoise, purple, blue, green, red and orange and the central image (which I don’t really like) is in green. I tend to wear this scarf in the Spring and Summer with clothes in blue and I haven’t yet tried it with my grey hair until this week.

My Daimyo is a very different design. I bought it mainly because I wanted to own an Hermès jacquard; in this case the impression of ginkgo leaves is woven into the silk, echoing parts of the central design. Online, the green of the scarf appeared to be a lovely turquoise. In real life, it is a very slightly blueish green. There are also shades of blue, pink, grey and lots of gold and brown. I wear the scarf with navy blue clothes in the Winter and, again, have only tried it with my grey hair this week.

With advice from members of tPF, I did wear both scarves in a couple of different ways against a navy blue top. My hair had only just been cut and styled the day before and I also put on a little makeup. The collage below shows the result:

Top: Daimyo Princes du Soleil Levant, Bottom: Au Coeur de la Vie

Top: Daimyo Princes du Soleil Levant, Bottom: Au Coeur de la Vie

I put both scarves into a bias fold and then used a necklace knot (images on the left) and a simple tie (images on the right). Unfortunately, my arms aren’t long enough to capture the whole scarf in each photo, but you can see the necklace knot below:

L: Au Coeur de la Vie, R: Daimyo Princes du Soleil Levant

L: Au Coeur de la Vie, R: Daimyo Princes du Soleil Levant

Personally, I really like Au Coeur de la Vie in this necklace knot.

I will probably upload this image onto the thread on tPF to get the verdict from the members there, but would also be interested to see what you all think on the blog. Do these still work for me? Are there any better ways of styling these scarves? Any thoughts would be gratefully received…

Happy weekend to you all.

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 22/11/18

This will be a short post today as we have been quite busy and I have only just arrived home in time to write. The morning was tough because I had a pretty bad coughing bout in the night. I was due to have the flu vaccination this afternoon, so I had to psych myself up a bit to be able to leave the house, but, in the end all was OK. I am not at all scared of needles after all of the investigations I have had!

After that, we decided to go to the garden centre for a cup of tea and a walk around. I have been looking for a new winter coat for a while and so was very pleased to find just the right one: navy, waterproof, wind proof, warm, thigh length and not very expensive. I know that I don’t go out very much, but I do need something right for the weather when I do venture forth.

Outfit of the day 22/11/18 with Liberty’s blue Hera scarf

Outfit of the day 22/11/18 with Liberty’s blue Hera scarf

Today’s outfit:

  • Mid grey cashmere short sleeved top – John Lewis.
  • Heathered light grey cashmere cardigan – Pure Collection.
  • Navy cotton stretch cord trousers – Lands’ End.
  • Silver and crystal earrings.
  • Cobalt blue enamel and gold Agama bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in blue, white and lavender – Hera – Liberty of London. From a distance, the pale lavender looks quite greyish and so goes well with grey clothing.

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 21/11/18

Ooh! I have just noticed that I have now clocked up 100 books in 2018, according to Goodreads 📖📚📖📚📖!  This week, I have read two very different books. Both were very enjoyable, so I count that as a reading success.

Green Rider by Kristen Britain

Green Rider by Kristen Britain

The first was Green Rider by Kristen Britain, #01 in her Green Rider series. Here is the blurb:

On her long journey home from school after a fight which will surely lead to her expulsion, Karigan G’ladheon ponders her future as she trudges through the immense forest called Green Cloak. But her thoughts are interrupted by the clattering of hooves as a galloping horse bursts from the woods, the rider slumped over his mount’s neck, impaled by two black-shafted arrows. As the young man lies dying on the road, he tells Karigan that he is a Green Rider, one of the legendary messengers of the king, and that he bears a “life and death” message for King Zachary. He begs Karigan to carry his message, warning her not to read it, and when she reluctantly agrees, he makes her swear on his sword to complete his mission “for love of country.” As he bestows upon her the golden winged-horse brooch which is the symbol of his office, he whispers on his dying breath, “Beware the shadow man…”

Karigan’s promise changes her life forever. Pursued by unknown assassins, following a path only her horse seems to know, and accompanied by the silent specter of the original messenger, she herself becomes a legendary Green Rider. Caught up in a world of deadly danger and complex magic, compelled by forces she cannot understand, Karigan is hounded by dark beings bent on seeing that the message, and its reluctant carrier, never reach their destination.

Oh, I love a bit of fantasy adventure! This is what I wrote on the Goodreads site (I gave the book three stars):

An enjoyable, if rather derivative, fantasy adventure. I enjoyed the characters, particularly the development of the central female. The plot was also exciting enough with plenty going on to keep me hooked. There were some shortfalls, however, which prevented me from giving this four stars. Some of the writing was odd – you can tell that this is a first book. For example, some of the vocabulary and grammatical construction grated on me. Also the derivative nature of the main storyline and some characters – I felt that a lot of this has been done already and done better!

Nevertheless, it was a good read and, if my local library has the rest of the series, I will definitely read another one.

After I wrote this review, I found out to my annoyance that the library does have a lot of the series, but not book #02! As they appear to be old copies, I think that the set was probably donated some time ago and the staff may be reluctant to purchase a new copy to fill in the gap. I will have to think about buying it myself.

The Blue Death by Joan Brady

The Blue Death by Joan Brady

My second read of the week was a complete change: Joan Brady’s The Blue Death. Here is the blurb:

For generations the Freyls have ruled Springfield, Illinois, capital of a state of great lakes and rivers. Now convicted killer David Marion threatens their invincibility, and he threatens it from within their own ranks.

Water: it’s blue gold, and the price on world markets is soaring. When Springfield gets a new mayor, it finds its supply under threat, not only from corporations out for the money but from a disease that appears from nowhere, that nobody can identify and nobody can treat.

None of this interests David Marion until his own past surfaces and he finds himself caught between multinational leviathans at war over America’s heartland.

I gave this book four stars as I really enjoyed reading it. This is my review:

This was a really interesting read. It quickly became clear that these characters had been in previous books, but I don’t think that this detracted much from my enjoyment of this book. Politics and the machinations of the rich and powerful battling for supremacy with international corporations were the central themes. Many of the characters were intriguing, if not very likeable, some were dangerous and highly unpleasant. The author has a slightly quirky style of writing with a dose of very black humour, which I found very entertaining. The whole book was a very good read, even if it left a rather bleak aftertaste. I will definitely look for more by this author.

In fact, when I have finished writing this post I will seek out more by Joan Brady on our local library online catalogue.

Right, so that’s all for this week. I will now read through the blurbs of the other books on my pile and decide which one to tackle next. I have six to choose from 😍😍😍.

Happy Reading to you all!

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 20/11/18 with a haircut

Well, I made it, but only just. I woke up feeling really horrible, but I was determined to get to my hair appointment and Lovely Husband was equally determined to get me there. As visitors may know already, I just love having my hair done. I have my appointments about six to seven weeks apart and really look forward to the transformation, even though it doesn’t last very long. As I only wash my hair twice a week these days, my new hairdo does last a bit longer than when I was younger. Up until about five years ago, my hair was very greasy and I had to wash it every day, but one of the compensations of age and retirement is that I am no longer a slave to daily shampooing!

Anyway, here is the before and after collage. Once again, my grey hair doesn’t photograph well and it looks loads better in real life (it does, I promise!).

 Before and after hairdos 20/11/18

Before and after hairdos 20/11/18

And here is the collage for today’s outfit:

Outfit of the day 20/11/18

Outfit of the day 20/11/18

Today’s outfit:

  • Grey cashmere short sleeved jumper – John Lewis.
  • Purple cashmere and merino long cardigan – WoolOvers. I don’t have an image of this at the moment, but it has pockets and three-quarter sleeves which really showcase bracelets or bangles.
  • Purple suede ankle boots – Duo Boots.
  • Indigo jeans – Cotton Traders.
  • Amethyst and silver earrings – Blue Nile.
  • Multicoloured enamel and rose gold Hera bangle – Liberty of London. I always wear my Skagen watch in rose gold, mother of pearl and crystal on my left wrist, so this bangle mirrors the rose gold finish.
  • Purple and grey lacquered horn pendant – Quecraft via Etsy.

At my last appointment, I had promised to show my hairdresser the purple boots that I was planning to buy, so I had to wear them today. Afterwards, I wanted to go to my favourite boutique in town, but I wasn’t well enough to walk that far and, instead, went into Sainsbury’s. They are having a 25% off sale on their clothing and accessories, so I had a good browse and came home with three items. I will try them on tomorrow, all being well, and will probably show you my purchases in Thursday’s post.

Reading Roundup post tomorrow!

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 19/11/18

As I wore the lovely Hermès’ Persepolis scarf by the designer Sophie Koechlin on Friday, I thought that I would change to another of her designs today: Les Secrets de Minos. The colours of this scarf are closer to my usual choices – navy, with several shades of blue together with green, brown, beige and orange.

A lot of my newer cashmere items are ready for a gentle wash, so I dug out some well worn pieces today. I love the cosy and warm feeling of cashmere against my skin and how light it is. Mind you, the battle against the dreaded moths continues! When it comes to that fight, my weapons and armour consist of good quality clothes covers and moth repellant (from Lakeland) in my wardrobe. For my heavier jumpers in wool and cashmere, which I store in drawers, I save the plastic cases that often come with the purchase of pillows, duvets and other household linens. These are perfect and work very well.

Outfit of the day 19/11/18 with Hermès’ Les Secrets de Minos scarf

Outfit of the day 19/11/18 with Hermès’ Les Secrets de Minos scarf

Today’s outfit:

  • Navy cashmere v-neck jumper – Marks and Spencer. Image is of a similar item.
  • Navy cashmere and merino v-neck cardigan – WoolOvers. Image is of a similar item.
  • Navy cotton stretch cord trousers – Lands’ End.
  • Crystal and gold earrings.
  • Bluebell enamel and gold Chain bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in navy, blue, green, brown, beige and orange – Les Secrets de Minos – Hermès. Yes, I used the cowboy cowl knot again, but this time I tucked the corner into the v-neck of my jumper.

I have an appointment with my hairdresser tomorrow, so really hope that I am well enough to go. If I feel fit, I will try to walk across town to my favourite boutique to see if I can seek out something nice. A little pick-me-up!

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 16/11/18 and wearing red!

I used to wear red quite a lot, in my younger days. Red dresses for parties, a big red cotton slouchy jumper, red shoes, red earrings, a red handbag. Red really suited me. My favourite dress was a gorgeous full-skirted Laura Ashley in red with a floral pattern (you can see it below). I also had one red scarf from Accessorize, which I have shown on here before. Nowadays, however, I hardly ever wear red and I have not included it into my colour scheme. Some time ago, I bought an Hermès Persepolis on impulse in shades of red – here is my Scarf of the Moment post about it.

Lovely Husband, Elder Son and me back in 1991!

Lovely Husband, Elder Son and me back in 1991!

Outfit of the day 15/02/17 with Accessorize scarf

Outfit of the day 15/02/17 with Accessorize scarf

So, today I decided to try my Persepolis with an old cherry red cashmere jumper. This is a very pretty design with three quarter sleeves and a low round neckline. I have been very keen on wearing my scarves in the cowboy cowl knot this week and as this scarf tie works well with v and round necklines, I decided to use it again today. I wanted to keep my neck warm!

Anyway, I think this is quite a successful outfit. Although I don’t have anything else in red left in my wardrobe, I am glad that I have hung onto this jumper. What do you think?

Outfit of the day 16/11/18 with Hermès’ Persepolis scarf

Outfit of the day 16/11/18 with Hermès’ Persepolis scarf

Today’s outfit:

  • Cherry red cashmere round neck jumper – Pure Collection. I don’t have a separate image of this for the collage.
  • Navy cotton joggers – Cotton Traders. If we had gone out I would have changed into jeans and my navy suede ankle boots.
  • Gold Horus earrings.
  • Red enamel and gold Geometric bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in reds, teal, yellow, lilac and orange – Persepolis – Hermès. Tied in a cowboy cowl knot.
  • Red lipstick. Absolutely vital with this outfit!

By the way, you can easily change the cowboy cowl knot into a straight cowl by either tucking the loose corner fabric into your jumper neckline or inside the cowl part of the scarf itself. You can see the effect below. Please excuse the colours; the photo was taken later in the afternoon and the light had changed.

Outfit of the day 16/11/18 with Hermès’ Persepolis scarf

Outfit of the day 16/11/18 with Hermès’ Persepolis scarf

I am feeling rather pleased with myself as I managed to go for a walk around the block this afternoon after I took a letter to the Post Office. Maybe I can do the same again very soon.

I hope that you all have a great weekend.

Best wishes,

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