Wishing you all a Very Merry Christmas!

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Wishing you all a Very Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas! By Gita Rau on Flickr
Best wishes,
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I have read some really great books this week! As I am not too well, I will write my first draft of this post with just the blurbs and reviews then, if I feel up to it, I will add in some more comments before publishing.

Women and Power: a Manifesto by Mary Beard
My first two books were new in to the public library and I was so pleased to find Mary Beard’s Women and Power: a Manifesto. It is quite a while since I last read non-fiction. Here is the blurb:
At long last, Mary Beard addresses in one brave book the misogynists and trolls who mercilessly attack and demean women the world over, including, very often, Mary herself. In Women & Power, she traces the origins of this misogyny to its ancient roots, examining the pitfalls of gender and the ways that history has mistreated strong women since time immemorial. As far back as Homer’s Odyssey, Beard shows, women have been prohibited from leadership roles in civic life, public speech being defined as inherently male. From Medusa to Philomela (whose tongue was cut out), from Hillary Clinton to Elizabeth Warren (who was told to sit down), Beard draws illuminating parallels between our cultural assumptions about women’s relationship to power—and how powerful women provide a necessary example for all women who must resist being vacuumed into a male template. With personal reflections on her own online experiences with sexism, Beard asks: If women aren’t perceived to be within the structure of power, isn’t it power itself we need to redefine? And how many more centuries should we be expected to wait?
And this was my four star review on Goodreads:
Two lectures by the wonderful Mary Beard, updated and put into book form. I really enjoyed her links between the classical world and today’s situation and her analysis of where women are now. Reading this, I could hear her voice in my head speaking the fluent sentences. Such lovely, flowing writing. My only criticisms are that I wish the book had been longer and had given her more space to expand her ideas to give us some suggested solutions. At the moment, many women’s voices are being drowned out by those of loud and arrogant men, who also hold firmly onto power. How do we change this?

Girl Up by Laura Bates
My second book was also by a feminist: Laura Bates, famous for her work on the Everyday Sexism Project. This book, Girl Up, has the following blurb:
They told you you need to be thin and beautiful.
They told you to wear longer skirts, avoid going out late at night and move in groups – never accept drinks from a stranger, and wear shoes you can run in more easily than heels.They told you to wear just enough make-up to look presentable but not enough to be a slut; to dress to flatter your apple, pear, hourglass figure, but not to be too tarty.
They warned you that if you try to be strong, or take control, you’ll be shrill, bossy, a ballbreaker. Of course it’s fine for the boys, but you should know your place.
They told you ‘that’s not for girls’ – ‘take it as a compliment’ – ‘don’t rock the boat’ – ‘that’ll go straight to your hips’.
They told you ‘beauty is on the inside’, but you knew they didn’t really mean it.
Well I’m here to tell you something different.
Hilarious, jaunty and bold, GIRL UP exposes the truth about the pressures surrounding body image, the false representations in media, the complexities of a sex and relationships, the trials of social media and all the other lies they told us.
I gave this book three stars. Here is my Goodreads review:
I read this wearing my retired school librarian’s hat! In many ways a very good book, in that it covers a huge range of topics for teen girls in a humorous but very informative way. I am not sure which exact age it would appeal to, though. Younger teens, probably, but would the length of the book put them off? Also the very explicit language may put off their parents or teachers! This is the sort of book which would go missing from a school library almost instantly! I also thought that some girls might find it a bit patronising (matronising?). I remember being blown away as a young woman when reading the original version of Our Bodies, Ourselves by the Boston Women’s Health Book Collective. Is this book trying to do something similar for this young generation? Perhaps and it is almost there, but maybe a bit too long and wordy.
By now, I had finished all of the books borrowed from the library and I then fell back on their ebook service. I am pleased to say that I was able to choose some really fabulous books to read next. If I am unable to visit the library tomorrow, I will be happy to continue to read ebooks on my iPad over Christmas.

The Ice by Laline Paull
So, the third book of the week was The Ice by Laline Paull. I had already read her acclaimed book, The Bees, quite some time ago. This is the blurb for The Ice:
It’s the day after tomorrow and the Arctic sea ice has melted. While global business carves up the new frontier, cruise ships race each other to ever-rarer wildlife sightings. The passengers of the Vanir have come seeking a polar bear. What they find is even more astonishing: a dead body.
It is Tom Harding, lost in an accident three years ago and now revealed by the melting ice of Midgard glacier. Tom had come to Midgard to help launch the new venture of his best friend of thirty years, Sean Cawson, a man whose business relies on discretion and powerful connections – and who was the last person to see him alive.
Their friendship had been forged by a shared obsession with Arctic exploration. And although Tom’s need to save the world often clashed with Sean’s desire to conquer it, Sean has always believed that underneath it all, they shared the same goals.
But as the inquest into Tom’s death begins, the choices made by both men – in love and in life – are put on the stand. And when cracks appear in the foundations of Sean’s glamorous world, he is forced to question what price he has really paid for a seat at the establishment’s table.
Just how deep do the lies go?
This one got a four stars and this review:
It is hard to categorise this book as it is part thriller, part environmental treatise, part science fiction, part mystery… and a lot more. The setting is a dystopian view of the near future where climate change has melted the Summer sea ice in the Arctic and has created open shipping lanes. Tourists, traders, environmentalists, politicians, money men and women, and mercenaries have become involved in a kind of wild frontier.
I really loved the book and can recommend reading it wearing a thick jumper and several warm scarves. The descriptions of the Arctic scenery were amazing and I loved the small extracts from the works of early explorers that were placed between the chapters. Although the main character was pretty unlikeable for most of the book, I was pleased to see that he redeemed himself, somewhat, towards the end. I can’t say that I would like to visit the Arctic after reading this, but I do feel that the author appears to have captured the atmosphere and experience very well indeed. Well worth reading.

The Day I Died by Lori Rader-Day
The next ebook book was also worth four stars. I am so pleased to see that the public library are continuing to add great new books to their ebook offer! This is the review for The Day I Died by Lori Rader-Day:
Anna Winger can know people better than they know themselves with only a glance—at their handwriting. Hired out by companies wanting to land trustworthy employees and by the lovelorn hoping to find happiness, Anna likes to keep the real-life mess of other people at arm’s length and on paper. But when she is called to use her expertise on a note left behind at a murder scene in the small town she and her son have recently moved to, the crime gets under Anna’s skin and rips open her narrow life for all to see. To save her son—and herself—once and for all, Anna will face her every fear, her every mistake, and the past she thought she’d rewritten.
This is is my response:
A really good read with a couple of plot lines that eventually come together. I liked the main characters and was intrigued by the idea of using hand-writing expertise and a woman continually running from her past as themes. The book was engrossing with occasional nerve wracking moments. As I read it as a ebook, I don’t think I will find more by this author in the library, which is a shame as I am sure that I would enjoy more by her. Recommended.

The Good Daughter by Karin Slaughter
My final book of the week was absolutely brilliant and well-worth the full five stars !
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I follow Karin Slaughter on Facebook and had seen comments about her latest book: The Good Daughter. Here is the blurb:
Two girls are forced into the woods at gunpoint. One runs for her life. One is left behind…
Twenty-eight years ago, Charlotte and Samantha Quinn’s happy small-town family life was torn apart by a terrifying attack on their family home. It left their mother dead. It left their father — Pikeville’s notorious defense attorney — devastated. And it left the family fractured beyond repair, consumed by secrets from that terrible night.
Twenty-eight years later, and Charlie has followed in her father’s footsteps to become a lawyer herself — the ideal good daughter. But when violence comes to Pikeville again — and a shocking tragedy leaves the whole town traumatized — Charlie is plunged into a nightmare. Not only is she the first witness on the scene, but it’s a case that unleashes the terrible memories she’s spent so long trying to suppress. Because the shocking truth about the crime that destroyed her family nearly thirty years ago won’t stay buried forever…
The minute that I finished the book, I sent Karin Slaughter a rather gushing message via FB and was pleased to see a gracious response this afternoon. Here is my equally gushing review:
I have to give this the full five stars! Such a wonderful and brilliant book. I love this author and have read everything I can get my hands on as ebooks or in print, but I think this is her best so far. Such a rollercoaster of a read starting with a huge event at the beginning and never really letting up. I simply could not put this book down and so I read it all in one go. I really enjoyed seeing the sisters’ characters through their own eyes and then through each other’s and also the central events unfolding in a similar way. Beautiful and clever writing. The kind of book where you cannot wait to find out the ending but you are sad that to have finished. The kind of book that you will remember for a long time.
I am now going to sift through her list of books on Goodreads and make sure that I request everything that I haven’t read yet from the library. Slaughter is really that good 💗.
So, I hope all of you who are equally keen readers enjoy your reading over the holidays, if you get time.
Best wishes,
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I am going to ease up a little from posting on this blog for a couple of weeks over the holiday period. Instead of trying to post every week day, I will cut it down to probably three times a week until January, unless I have something particularly interesting to tell you!
As I have already said, I am finding this time of year very hard to cope with. The lack of support from wider family is really painful and the absence of my parents is so poignant, when I remember such happy times with them in the past. We will try hard to make a cheerful time for our lads and they will have their own friends and work to keep them entertained.
I do hope that all visitors to this blog have a wonderful Christmas and New Year!

Merry Christmas by Kit on Flickr
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I have been very busy today, between rests, trying to do my bit to prepare for Christmas. At last Younger Son helped me to put up the tree. Since I became so ill, we have had to streamline things a lot so, a few years ago, we bought a pre-lit fibre-optic tree. It now looks very pretty in our front window.
We are also very late writing the cards and I finally got around to printing off our card list this afternoon. Then we had a hunt round the house for the card boxes and couldn’t find them anywhere! Aargh! I hope that one of us has some inspiration soon or we will have to get some more.
Lovely Husband is very organised and loves making lists and so I typed up his food buying list and also a kind of action list too. This is now saved on my laptop so we can use it or adapt it for next year. He also likes me to type out a decorated menu card for Christmas Day as he really goes to town on the lunch. We get out all of the best china, candles, cutlery and glassware (which we only seem to use once or twice a year these days) and I enjoy making the table look fab, even if it is just for the four of us.
I am really tired now and am resting in bed, so I will just leave you with a tempting image which I might just come back to early next year…

Best wishes and a happy weekend,
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I am going to show you the two items I bought when I was out on Tuesday, after my haircut. There is a lovely new boutique which has opened nearby, selling very pretty tops and a massive range of accessories, beautifully displayed and all crammed into a tiny space. The owner is lovely and welcoming and it is so refreshing to have something like this in our rather boring little market town. The Sonrisa boutique has its own Facebook page, if you are interested.

Poncho and scarf from the Sonrisa boutique in Hinckley
The shop has a gorgeous and colourful collection of one-size tops and I quickly spotted this navy poncho. The fabric is a fine mixed fibre jersey and there are bands of sparkles around the v-neckline and on the front edges, which are finished with fluffy pom-poms. The iPad camera couldn’t quite capture the colour, which is a dark navy.
I think I will probably wear this on Boxing Day with my navy cotton polo neck top, velour trousers and boots. We always go out to a local favourite pub for lunch on that day and this poncho will hide a multitude of puds! It will need very little jewellery as too much would fight with the sparkly bits. Perhaps my Swarovski ring and earrings will be enough. I don’t want to look like a dark blue Christmas Tree!
The second item, as I showed on Tuesday, was a pretty acrylic fringed shawl in turquoise, navy and bright pink. It is so soft and ideal for snuggling in bed, during these cold days and evenings. In fact, I love it so much that I have hardly stopped wearing it since I brought it home. Soooooo sooooooft!
Eek! As I was finishing editing this post, I visited the shop’s Facebook page and saw that the owner has uploaded the photos she took of me… this is more of me than you usually see on here ☺️😊.

Pretty sparkly poncho at the Sonrisa boutique
It just goes to show that you can get a pretty little pick-me-up (or two) for very good value if you keep your eyes open 😍💗😍💗 and don’t want to fork out for an Hermès scarf!
Best wishes,
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I have really enjoyed my reading this week, with some great print and ebooks borrowed from our public library service. By the way, I deliberately mention our library system as often as I can – it is being systematically demolished by our present government, to their shame.

Only We Know by Karen Perry
The first book of the week was Karen Perry’s Only We Know. Oh, just one thing first. There are inaccuracies in this blurb and also the cover is completely wrong! This playground image does not fit with the story at all. Here is the book’s blurb:
In 1982, an idyllic summer is shattered when three children play a game that ends in tragedy.
Now, thirty years later, Nick, Luke and Katie remain bound together by the truth of what happened that day.
But some secrets won’t stay buried.
And when Luke vanishes and the threatening messages begin, it becomes clear someone else knows the truth – and is intent on justice, no matter what the cost…
I awarded the book three stars on Goodreads and wrote this review:
I am struggling to articulate what I think about this book. Told from varying points of view and in different timelines, it was interesting, gripping in parts, intriguing but also it lost my attention occasionally. About halfway through I guessed some of the outcomes, and was correct up to a point, but not totally, which was good. Not so sure about the ending, though.
It also had a very mixed reception from others on Goodreads, with some people giving it the full five stars. I do love the fact that books can appeal, or not, to different readers. We each respond in our own way. That’s one of the reasons why I check books out on places like Goodreads and also LibraryThing, rather than relying on professional reviewers. I like to read the varying responses.

Rebound by Aga Lesiewicz
My second read of the week was a first novel: Rebound by Aga Lesiewicz. Once again, the blurb:
Rebound is a dark and gripping psychological thriller from debut author Aga Lesiewicz.
I’m not a bad person, but maybe I did a bad thing . . .
Life is good for Anna Wright. She’s a successful media executive working for one of the UK’s largest TV corporations. She’s got a great boyfriend, some close friends and a lovely home. She adores her dog, Wispa, and she loves to run to help her de-stress.
But Anna’s perfect life starts to crumble from the moment when, out jogging on the Heath one day, she meets a handsome stranger. She takes a route into unfamiliar territory, and then she has to face the consequences.
There’s a dark, growing creepiness as the atmosphere becomes unsettled and, as Anna’s professional life becomes increasingly pressured and poisonous, her obsession with the intriguing stranger intensifies.
Now, I have a slightly odd and unsettling story to go with this book. When I was in the library choosing my current book pile, an elderly man passed me this book telling me that I would really enjoy it. I thought that this was a kind gesture and liked the ensuing conversation that we then had about books and reading. When I actually read the book, however, I realised that there is a great deal of sexual activity in it, mainly rough, very explicit and sometimes not exactly consensual. Then I started wondering if the elderly man had read the book that he recommended to me! I hope he was merely judging the book by its cover 😱😲😮!
Anyway, here is my review (three stars):
I read this all in one day, so must have enjoyed it! A very good first novel with a gripping plot. It could have been cut a bit though. I don’t think we needed to know the details of each meal! A few scenes were, perhaps, unnecessary. Well worth reading, despite a few caveats.
My caveats are that I cannot imagine any woman taking the totally stupid risks that the main character does in the book. But then, there wouldn’t be any story if she had been sensible!

Kill the Father by Sandrone Dazieri
My third read was an ebook translated from Italian: Kill the Father by Sandrone Dazieri. This deserved a solid four stars and was a great book:
In this fascinatingly complex thriller, two people, each shattered by their past, team to solve a series of killings and abductions…
When a woman is beheaded in a park outside Rome and her six-year-old son goes missing, the police unit assigned to the case sees an easy solution: they arrest the woman’s husband and await his confession. But the Chief of Rome’s Major Crimes unit doubts things are so simple. Secretly, he lures to the case two of Italy’s top analytical minds: Deputy Captain Colomba Caselli, a fierce, warrior-like detective still reeling from having survived a bloody catastrophe, and Dante Torre, a man who spent his childhood trapped inside a concrete silo. Fed through the gloved hand of a masked kidnapper who called himself “The Father,” Dante emerged from his ordeal with crippling claustrophobia but, also, with an unquenchable thirst for knowledge and hyper-observant capacities.
All evidence suggests that the Father is back and active after being dormant for decades. Indeed, he has left tell-tale signs that signal he’s looking forward to a reunion with Dante. But when Columba and Dante begin following the ever-more-bizarre trail of clues, they grasp that what’s really going on is darker than they ever imagined.
This is is the first book in a series and I cannot wait for the next one! Here is my review:
A complex, long and very exciting thriller set in Italy and translated from Italian. Well drawn main characters who are out of the ordinary and layers of plot twists. I downloaded this as an ebook from the public library catalogue as an afterthought and, instead, came upon a nugget of gold. I can’t wait to read the sequel which will be available in February 2018!

Now We Are Dead by Stuart MacBride
I had such a great time with my reads this week that I also finished a fourth book. This was an ebook which I had reserved ages ago. I love Stuart MacBride’s dark sense of humour and his great characters so this was immense fun to read: Now We Are Dead. This is number 10.5 in MacBride’s Logan McRae series and centres on the Roberta Steele character:
Sergeant Roberta Steel has recently been demoted after being caught fitting up a suspect. The trouble is, the man she got sent down has had his sentence quashed now he’s back on the streets. And women are being attacked again. But if DS Steel goes anywhere near him his lawyers will get her thrown off the force for good.
The Powers That Be won’t listen to her not after what happened last time. Besides, she’s got more than enough ongoing cases to keep her busy perhaps she should focus on solving them instead of harassing an innocent man?
But Steel knows he’s guilty and the longer he gets away with it, the more women will suffer. The question is: how much is she willing to sacrifice to stop him?
This is my review:
It is not often that I give a book the full five stars, but this one really deserves that accolade. How MacBride manages to marry such dreadful scenes and events with dark humour, I will never know, but the book had me almost in tears at one moment and then laughing out loud at the next. Steele is a fabulous character and the small touches of police life (the daft names used for positive and negative happenings, for example) are simply brilliant. Love this series so much. Please don’t stop writing about these characters, Stuart!
By the way, please read the other books in the Logan McRae series before tackling this one as you would not really get the best out of this book if you don’t.

Women and Power: a Manifesto by Mary Beard
My next two books have a feminist twist. I am about to start Mary Beard’s Women and Power: a Manifesto and will the probably skim through Girl Up by Laura Bates. I will let you know what I think of these two next week.
Happy Reading to you all,
Best wishes,
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My hair appointments seem to come around quickly. Mind you, I usually have them every six weeks and this time the gap was only five, because of the Christmas holidays. I have been very happy with my hair since I had it cut shorter as it now has a lot more bounce and wave. This has made it look a bit thicker, which is good news. I had a fair bit chopped off today plus a blow dry, which always looks nice. It will be interesting to see what my hair looks like when I wash it myself as I just mess it up a bit with my fingers and then leave it to air dry. I don’t have the energy or skill to blow dry it.
Depending on the light, you can really see the greys growing in now and I am really interested to see what colour I am going to be. I have a silver streak at the front that has been there for decades, but I am still not sure what the rest will be like. I am far too impatient!
As I was feeling pretty good today, I also popped in to a new boutique which has opened near my hairdresser. We have very few interesting shops in our local town, and I hope this one stays. The stock is well priced, appears to be very good value and is a real treasure trove of pretty tops and really cute accessories. And you all know how I simply cannot walk past accessories! I will show you what I bought on Thursday, although the “after” photo below gives you a preview.

Before and after haircut 12/12/17
Reading Roundup tomorrow!
Best wishes,
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We have had beautiful snowy weather for the last few days and our street and garden look lovely. As I don’t have to leave the house these days, and am not worrying about getting to work, I can appreciate the thick layer of sparkling white over the neighbourhood. The lads work fairly close by so are able to walk and I don’t worry about them either.
I am concerned, however, about those people who are less fortunate, particularly those who are homeless. It must be dreadful trying to keep warm and dry, particularly in weather like this. The number of homeless people in the UK is shocking and horrific and I sometimes feel ashamed to live in a country which seems to tolerate this.
So, when I saw this on Facebook I had to take a moment to listen. This song takes me right back to my childhood and it is great to see that it has been released in a new version by Crisis UK, the charity supporting the homeless, to raise money. I have uploaded the video from YouTube here, but urge everyone to either pay for their own download or to think of the homeless when making their next charity donation. You can download Streets of London from here, or make other gifts to the charity here. Ralph McTell still has such a wonderful voice!
Best wishes to you all,
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After yesterday’s pretty awful selfie, taken to clearly show my emerging greys, I washed my hair and have taken another photo. I think that this one is a bit better! The outfit was an attempt to try something out which would go well with grey hair. I have had this grey jumper for years. The cashmere is still incredibly soft and light, even after being washed loads of times. The scarf colours are a pretty mixture of turquoise, blue, grey, gold and black, but the silk is very cheap and fine. As a whole, I believe the outfit works OK.
Today’s outfit:

Outfit of the day 08/12/17
I hope you all have a great weekend, despite the snow ⛄️!
Best wishes,
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I am due for my next hair appointment on Tuesday and have already decided that I will continue to avoid hair dye. My next haircut will be a pretty radical trim so that I can get closer to my grey “transformation”! It is very easy to see the grey coming through now and I am interested to see what colour it will be when all the dyed parts have been cut away.
I am trying to remember exactly when I began consistently having my hair coloured at the hairdresser and think that it was probably at least sixteen years ago. Before that, I used to do it myself, with very mixed results. So, let’s say that I started around twenty or so years ago. I can remember having a very mixed natural colour then: a basic mid to light brown, with some patches of salt and pepper at the back and a clear silver streak at the front. Now I can see that silver streak coming back, but this time with more silver at the sides and a darker grey at the parting. I am getting quite excited in anticipation!
There are still the issues around which of my existing clothes and accessories will suit my new look and which won’t. I also have concerns about my thin hair on top and how that will turn out.
Well, we shall see. Probably by the time Spring arrives.
Anyway, the photo below shows really clearly my grey growth. It is a very unflattering picture as I brushed all my hair back off my forehead! Eek! 🤭😬🙄

Going grey 07/12/17
I will continue to take (probably equally unflattering) photos so that I have a record of my “progress”. 😁
Best wishes,
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Dear Lauren, thank you for your comment. Yes, the scarf is gorgeous! Best wishes, Anne x