Update 07/01/19 with Christmas presents #02

As usual, I treated myself to a couple of nice items at Christmas. I am cheating a little here with this reveal, as I have already opened these and have worn them, but I wanted to show you the lovely presentation.

Here are the cute boxes, tied with ribbon (the original version was much neater than my attempt!)…

The opened boxes with the lovely protective pouches. The labels tell you what is inside…

Yes, two useful and pretty scarf rings from MaiTai (links in the sidebar and at the bottom of this post) – Anneau Infinity in purple lacquered horn and a Grande Classique in mother-of-pearl…

I bought these in MaiTai’s sale; the MOP scarf ring is a “second”. Both of these will be very useful additions to my collection and will help me to be even more creative with my scarf ties. The MOP ring adds a silvery touch with looks nice with my hair and the purple goes well with many of my scarves. I may add some more in this style in other colours in the future. Here you can see a couple of  practice scarf ties, using these new rings…

New scarf rings with Le Jardin de la Maharani and Dans un Jardin Anglais - Hermès

New scarf rings with Le Jardin de la Maharani and Dans un Jardin Anglais – Hermès

These photos are from MaiTai’s shopping site:

She has a lovely range of very chic and classy items, including scarf and shawl rings, jewellery, scarves, handbag organisers and homeward, which arrive promptly and beautifully presented. I have written about her blog many times before and it is really worth exploring if you are interested in scarves, wearing them with stylish outfits and learning new ways to tie them.

I am going to enjoy trying out my new rings with my scarf collection.

Best wishes,

💜💜💜💜💜

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Outfit of the day 04/01/19

I had planned to write about some of my other Christmas gifts today, but I am feeling very pleased that I was actually able to go out, so I will post about that instead. Yes, it was only to the Library and the supermarket café, but even these destinations feel like a real achievement.

My new book pile has now been chosen and stacked next to my bed and I have picked up the next book in Pierce Brown’s Red Rising Saga: Iron Gold. It is a shiny new hardback and I think that I may be the first person to borrow it. Whilst in the Library, I recommended the first three books in the series to the staff and reserved some more new reads.

We then had a quick drink and a wander around the supermarket, greeting Elder Son when he walked past on his way to a break. I picked up a few essential items and we then came back home. I am now in bed resting and writing this blog post.

Oh, and I mentioned in yesterday’s post that I was thinking about contacting a counsellor? In the evening I emailed a lovely man who saw me a few years ago and have made an appointment for next week. I am hoping that this will help me to deal with a lot of issues that are bad,y affecting my mental health.

Outfit of the day 04/01/19 with Aspinal’s Owl in the City scarf

Outfit of the day 04/01/19 with Aspinal’s Owl in the City scarf

Today’s outfit:

  • Navy cotton cable jumper – Lands’ End.
  • Grey stretch cotton cord trousers – Lands’ End.
  • Navy suede ankle boots – Duo Boots.
  • Crystal and gold tone owl earrings – Sainsbury’s Tu.
  • Bluebell and cream enamel, crystal and gold Owl bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in navy, grey, blue and white – Owl in the City – Aspinal. Tied in what the Purse Forum calls a “fifi” knot, named after very lovely member.

I did wonder about wearing my cute owl brooch as well, but decided that this would be a step too far!

I hope that you all have a wonderful weekend.

Best wishes,

💚💛💜❤️💙

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Update 03/01/19 with Christmas presents #01

Now that I have had a bit of a break from the blog, I would like to show you some of the gifts I received for Christmas.

Lovely Husband is happy for me to choose my own present each year and this time I went back to a company that I have used before. The Grand Tour Collection (link in the sidebar) is located in Rome and produces jewellery based on ancient Classical sculptures with a modern twist. You may remember the absolutely gorgeous bracelet that I ordered from them a while back.

Blue resin, leather and gold bracelet - Grand Tour Collection

Blue resin, leather and gold bracelet – Grand Tour Collection

This time I went for earrings in a lovely violet colour with the head of Medusa! The colour blends perfectly with my Marks and Spencer cashmere V-neck, Hermès Jaguar Quetzal scarf and my Massaccesi Victoria handbag in amethyst leather, amongst other items in my wardrobe. This is why I love to choose my own presents, where appropriate, as I can make sure that everything matches.

Violet resin and gold earrings - Grand Tour Collection

Violet resin and gold earrings – Grand Tour Collection

The earrings match this cashmere jumper!

The earrings match this cashmere jumper!

My sons chose their own gifts, with a few tiny hints from me, and selected such lovely items – I was thrilled by their thought and care. Elder Son gave me some much needed pyjamas with a snowflake design and a gorgeous and very bling snowflake brooch. My present from Younger Son was a beautiful Swarovski necklace and earrings set with red crystals. He told me that he chose the red because he is living in Wales.

Pressies from my gorgeous sons

Pressies from my gorgeous sons

Here I am on Christmas Day, wearing the above gifts from my sons!

Trying to keep a brave face at Christmas

Trying to keep a brave face at Christmas

Christmas was a very difficult time for me as I had a huge mental relapse and spent three days in bed. I am so fortunate that my “lads” were so kind and supportive and also pulled together to make the festival as enjoyable as they could for all of us. I am now considering whether I need to have more counselling to deal with my high stress levels and anxiety attacks. I found a great counsellor back in 2014, who helped me to come to terms with disabling grief, impending early retirement and chronic illness and I may contact him again and see if he is available.

Tomorrow’s post will show you a couple of items that I gave myself for Christmas.

Best wishes,

💜❤️💚💛💙

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Reading roundup 02/01/19

Happy New Year to you all! And Happy Reading too!

Yes, this is the first Reading Roundup post of the year and also this blog’s second birthday. I have read the most fabulous trilogy over the holidays, which is just as well because I was extremely ill over Christmas and at least these great books helped to distract my mind.

Red Rising, Golden Son and Morning Star by Pierce Brown are the first three books in his Red Rising Saga and they are the first main story arc of the series. For once, I am going to do things a little differently to usual. Normally, as I finish each book I write a short and very basic review on the Goodreads site. This time I decided to wait until I had finished all three books in this story arc and write a collective review at the end. I am so glad that I decided to do this!

Anyway, first of all I will show you each book’s cover and blurb…

Red Rising:

Red Rising by Pierce Brown

Red Rising by Pierce Brown

Darrow is a Red, a member of the lowest caste in the color-coded society of the future. Like his fellow Reds, he works all day, believing that he and his people are making the surface of Mars livable for future generations.

Yet he spends his life willingly, knowing that his blood and sweat will one day result in a better world for his children.

But Darrow and his kind have been betrayed. Soon he discovers that humanity already reached the surface generations ago. Vast cities and sprawling parks spread across the planet. Darrow—and Reds like him—are nothing more than slaves to a decadent ruling class.

Inspired by a longing for justice, and driven by the memory of lost love, Darrow sacrifices everything to infiltrate the legendary Institute, a proving ground for the dominant Gold caste, where the next generation of humanity’s overlords struggle for power. He will be forced to compete for his life and the very future of civilization against the best and most brutal of Society’s ruling class. There, he will stop at nothing to bring down his enemies… even if it means he has to become one of them to do so.

Golden Son:

Golden Son by Pierce Brown

Golden Son by Pierce Brown

As a Red, Darrow grew up working the mines deep beneath the surface of Mars, enduring backbreaking labor while dreaming of the better future he was building for his descendants. But the Society he faithfully served was built on lies. Darrow’s kind have been betrayed and denied by their elitist masters, the Golds—and their only path to liberation is revolution. And so Darrow sacrifices himself in the name of the greater good for which Eo, his true love and inspiration, laid down her own life. He becomes a Gold, infiltrating their privileged realm so that he can destroy it from within.

A lamb among wolves in a cruel world, Darrow finds friendship, respect, and even love—but also the wrath of powerful rivals. To wage and win the war that will change humankind’s destiny, Darrow must confront the treachery arrayed against him, overcome his all-too-human desire for retribution—and strive not for violent revolt but a hopeful rebirth. Though the road ahead is fraught with danger and deceit, Darrow must choose to follow Eo’s principles of love and justice to free his people.

He must live for more.

And Morning Star:

Morning Star by Pierce Brown

Morning Star by Pierce Brown

Darrow would have lived in peace, but his enemies brought him war. The Gold overlords demanded his obedience, hanged his wife, and enslaved his people. But Darrow is determined to fight back. Risking everything to transform himself and breach Gold society, Darrow has battled to survive the cutthroat rivalries that breed Society’s mightiest warriors, climbed the ranks, and waited patiently to unleash the revolution that will tear the hierarchy apart from within.

Finally, the time has come.

But devotion to honor and hunger for vengeance run deep on both sides. Darrow and his comrades-in-arms face powerful enemies without scruple or mercy. Among them are some Darrow once considered friends. To win, Darrow will need to inspire those shackled in darkness to break their chains, unmake the world their cruel masters have built, and claim a destiny too long denied—and too glorious to surrender.

So, what is my verdict of this trilogy? Well, please bear in mind that I am not a sophisticated reader. I read for escape, for excitement, for adventure, to be taken out of myself, to dull physical and mental pain, for sheer enjoyment of a story and characters. I need something to happen and, boy, do things happen in these books! Once you start reading you are on a rollercoaster, a huge wave that carries you from scene to scene, from book to book. I love how the characters, particularly Darrow, develop across all three books. I love the huge surprises, the political machinations, the unpredictability and twists in the plot. This writer is talented and very clever.

Now that I have written this much, I am going to go to the Goodreads pages about each book and read the reviews. Then I will come back to this blog post and, perhaps, add some more of my own thoughts. As you can see, I am struggling to describe how much I like love these books (yes, I have already ordered book four, Iron Gold, from the Library). ➡️➡️➡️

↪️ Right, I am back again. Please go to Goodreads and read some of the reviews of this series for yourselves. Some of them are brilliant. But, be aware that, unlike many book series, this one gets better and better with each book. Those people who didn’t get on with the first one have really missed the fantastic developments in books two and three. The whole story progresses well across all three books and Darrow’s development as a person is impressively written. We can see him growing into adulthood and learning from his mistakes. The world building is also excellent and detailed, the books blending elements of fantasy as well as science fiction.

So, I think you will have got the idea – I highly recommend the Red Rising Saga! Now, I must tell the library staff when I visit on Friday…

Best wishes,

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Merry Christmas to you!

I am taking a break from the blog for a few days. There may be a couple of posts next week, but then again, there may not! It all depends on how I feel.

Merry Christmas by Kit on Flickr

Merry Christmas by Kit on Flickr

So, I am wishing you all a very Merry Christmas and/or Season’s Greetings!

🎄❄️☃️❄️🎄

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Update 20/12/18 with more about my new Hermès scarf

Yesterday morning I felt well enough to actually get dressed and take some modelling photos with my gorgeous new Hermès scarf: À L’Ombre des Pivoines. I wore my mid grey cashmere short sleeved top and lighter grey cashmere cardigan, with aqua glass and silver heart-shaped earrings.

Here are the scarf ties that I tried. I think they really show off the versatility of the scarf. The texture of the silk twill is very crisp and quite stiff, so I will wait until it has softened up before I attempt the more draped ties, such as the edo or waterfall knots.

À L’Ombre des Pivoines - scarf ties

À L’Ombre des Pivoines – scarf ties

  1. Top row L-R: bias fold, cowboy cowl, opposite bias fold
  2. Middle row L-R: asymmetric wrap, cowboy cowl with a different corner on show, cowl knot
  3. Bottom row L-R: asymmetric wrap reversed, wrap knot, half bow knot.

Those of you with good eyesight may have seen that I am using a new scarf ring in a couple of the photos. I will reveal all after Christmas as it is one of my presents to myself!

Now, I am hoping that I am well enough tomorrow to go out with Lovely Husband, because I want to wear this outfit!

Best wishes,

💙💜💚💛❤️

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Reading roundup 19/12/18

One fairly long book again this week! I think that I am spending a lot of time watching TV via Amazon Prime and following feminists on Twitter.

The Desert Spear by Peter V Brett

The Desert Spear by Peter V Brett

This was an easy read: The Desert Spear by Peter V Brett, #02 in his Demon Cycle series. Here is the blurb (by the way, the book has the Painted Man, rather than Warded Man)…

The sun is setting on humanity. The night now belongs to voracious demons that prey upon a dwindling population forced to cower behind half-forgotten symbols of power.

Legends tell of a Deliverer: a general who once bound all mankind into a single force that defeated the demons. But is the return of the Deliverer just another myth? Perhaps not.

Out of the desert rides Ahmann Jardir, who has forged the desert tribes into a demon-killing army. He has proclaimed himself Shar’Dama Ka, the Deliverer, and he carries ancient weapons–a spear and a crown–that give credence to his claim.

But the Northerners claim their own Deliverer: the Warded Man, a dark, forbidding figure.

Once, the Shar’Dama Ka and the Warded Man were friends. Now they are fierce adversaries. Yet as old allegiances are tested and fresh alliances forged, all are unaware of the appearance of a new breed of demon, more intelligent—and deadly—than any that have come before.

I was a bit stingy with this book and only gave it three stars. This is my review on Goodreads:

This is the kind of book where you need to suspend several critical faculties in order to just go along with the adventure. I enjoyed the story, despite several reservations: my Feminist hackles rose very high indeed, my grammar and nit picking side had to be tied up and put in a cupboard and my sense of historical accuracy (what! This is a fantasy novel!) had to be put aside. I also had to put blinkers on to get through some of the nasty sexual side.

I love a good story with lots of unexpected twists, and this fits that description. I also like interesting characters, and there are plenty of those. But, some of the characters are a bit stereotypical and the plot has huge holes in places.

I think the plot is supposed to take place in some kind of medieval world after some massive catastrophe, but some of the discoveries and inventions are very anachronistic: molecules?

Despite these misgivings, the ideas behind the series are quite inventive and I did enjoy the adventure. Yes, I will read another book in the series, so perhaps that shows that my final verdict is positive!

Red Rising by Pierce Brown

Red Rising by Pierce Brown

I am now reading the first book in a new (to me) series: Red Rising by Pierce Brown. I liked the look of the blurb and requested the next two from the library, so I am going to read these over Christmas. If I run out of print books during the holidays, I will be able to access the library’s ebook service via BorrowBox either on my iPad or phone. I have never read a book on a screen as small as that, so I may stick to the iPad!

I am not sure if I will post a Reading Roundup post next week as I may be too busy, so look out for my next one in two weeks. Until then…

Happy Reading to you all!

Best wishes,

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Update 18/12/18

I had hoped that I would be able to take some modelling photos of my new A L’Ombre des Pivoines today, but I have continued to be very weak and ill. Maybe I will manage to do so tomorrow and post on Thursday. We shall see.

In the meantime, you can see the designers of this wonderful scarf and a little about it and others in this article on the Luxuo website:

The Hermès carré Club was a glimpse into the joie de vivre of its Artisan Scarves

I will write a Reading Roundup post tomorrow.

Best wishes,

❤️💜💚💛💙

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Update 17/12/18 with a gorgeous reveal!

My eyes have been drinking in the amazing scarf designs for the new Hermès Spring/Summer 2019 season as each one becomes available. Then I heard that there is going to be a huge price increase in the new year, with the UK really being hard hit because of the state of the pound. My heart sank as I realised that I simply could not stretch to buying Hermès any longer. There are so many designs that I love…

I kept hoping that some might appear on the UK site just in time to beat the price rise (these scarves are expensive enough after all), but no such luck. Then a little bird told me that I might be able to use the French Hermès site instead!

Today’s reveal is the result 😍😍😍.

The brown cardboard box – am I going to like the scarf as much as I thought?

Ooh, we have the special Christmas box!

The iconic orange Hermès box…

Open to display part of the scarf – oh, that bleu glacier  and the amazing work on the flower 💗💕💗…

Unfolding the scarf…

A few photos following…

Here is the image from the website – yes, this is much paler than the real thing, but at least it gives you an idea of the whole scarf.

I have been very ill overnight and today so have not taken any modelling photos. Hopefully, I will be well enough to take some tomorrow. I want to see the scarf with my grey clothing, although I can already see that it will also look great with navy.

Best wishes from a very happy Librain,

💕💖💗💓💞💝💞💓💗💖💕

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Outfit of the day 14/12/18

All of the “activity” of the last few days has worn me out a bit. I have had to rest more today, so I have not been able to help with the housework. Over the weekend, I will try to tackle the lounge, with help, and get the Christmas tree up, but I may not be able to. We now have a very simple fibre-optic tree with no decorations. The tree is very pretty and I love turning out the lounge lights on an evening and just watching the tree change in sequence. I feel like a child again!

Outfit of the day 14/12/18 with Ferragamo navy leopard scarf

Outfit of the day 14/12/18 with Ferragamo navy leopard scarf

For today’s outfit, I dug out my oldest Ferragamo scarf. This one has a wide navy border and a vaguely geometric design in brown, blue, green and yellow with the outlines of leopards in brown. The silk is very soft and drapes well. I wore it over my navy cotton cable jumper and a navy polo neck base layer:

Today’s outfit:

  • Navy cotton polo neck base layer – Isle Collection.
  • Navy cotton cable jumper – Lands’ End.
  • Navy cotton joggers – Cotton Traders.
  • Bronze Art Nouveau style earrings.
  • Bluebell enamel and gold Chain bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in navy, blue, brown and gold – Ferragamo.

I hope that you all have a wonderful weekend.

Best wishes,

💙❤️💜💚💛

PS I have a very lovely item arriving on Monday!

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