Outfit of the day 03/04/18

So this is the outfit that I wanted to wear yesterday, on the actual day of our Wedding Anniversary, as this is the scarf that Lovely Husband bought me to celebrate the day. I was unable to get dressed and go downstairs, however, as I felt too ill, but today has been a much better day so far. Lovely Husband drove me to the Library and also a local supermarket to do a small amount of shopping that I needed. We had a quick drink and then came home. On the way back, we had a major problem (TMI to tell you about this!), but I am now sitting in bed feeling pretty pleased. I have managed to walk quite a lot and, if my leg muscles are aching, it goes to show that I have actually achieved something positive.

Today’s outfit:

  • Bright teal cotton mix top – Lands’ End. The colour in the collage below is not quite right as it is a clear and true teal.
  • Bright teal cotton mix cardigan – Lands’ End.
  • Indigo jeans – Cotton Traders.
  • London Blue topaz and silver earrings – Blue Nile.
  • Peacock snake print leather and pale gold wrap bracelet – Aspinal of London.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in red, teal, blue, purple and yellow – Persepolis – Hermès.
Outfit of the day 03/04/18 with Hermès’ Persepolis scarf

Outfit of the day 03/04/18 with Hermès’ Persepolis scarf

I am planning to write a Reading Roundup post tomorrow as usual.

Best wishes,

❤💜💙💛💚

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30 years today!

02/04/1988

02/04/1988

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Outfit of the day 30/03/18

Well, this is what I wanted to wear today:

  • Aqua cotton mix cable jumper – Lands’ End.
  • Navy jeans – Cotton Traders.
  • Pastel colours silk scarf – Accessorize.
  • Art Deco silver and mother of pearl earrings.
  • Bracelet.
Outfit of the day 30/03/18

Outfit of the day 30/03/18

The bracelet would have been either:

  • White and eau de nil enamel and gold Agama bangle – Halcyon Days. This matches the colour of the jumper perfectly.
Enamel and gold bangle - Halcyon Days

Enamel and gold bangle – Halcyon Days

Or:

  • Brown snake print leather and silver wrap bracelet – Aspinal of London. I haven’t shown this before on here as it was bought as a present for someone, but I ended up keeping it!
Snake print leather and silver wrap bracelet - Aspinal

Snake print leather and silver wrap bracelet – Aspinal

But instead I ended up wearing…

Pyjamas! Aargh!

I really think that I, and my family, are due some good fortune. I wanted to go out with my Lovely Husband today, but had a huge and horrendous coughing attack yesterday, which was why I couldn’t write a post, and then another one in the middle of the night. So, yet again, I am recovering in bed. Just as well that I love reading!

Anyway, I hope that you all have a great Easter weekend and that the weather here in the UK improves. I will try to write a post on Monday as that is a very special day for Lovely Husband and me.

Until then, very best wishes,

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Reading roundup 28/03/18

It is two weeks since the last Reading Roundup post and I haven’t read as many books as would be expected, given my usual pace. When I am really unwell, I find that my concentration goes up or down through a number of levels and my reading mirrors this. At my best, I can read books for sustained periods, usually a number of hours (the joys of retirement!). As my concentration drops, I flit between open tabs on my iPad with Twitter, Facebook and a range of blogs, then back to an easy to read book before returning to the iPad. The next level down shows me “reduced” to simple games on the iPad and, perhaps, magazines and TV shows. Below that I cannot read at all and only listen to talk radio or watch TV. At the penultimate level I can only bear to listen to calm music. My family know that I am dreadfully ill if I need total silence.

Predator by Faye Kellerman

Predator by Faye Kellerman

I did attempt to read a few books during this last fortnight, however. The first was Predator by Faye Kellerman. Here is the blurb:

LAPD Detective Peter Decker is about to face a case that will push him to the limit…Residents in a local building have been complaining of a smell coming from an apartment rented by the eccentric inventor Hobart Penny. Nearly ninety-years-old, and a hermit for the last 25 years, it is not surprising that the reclusive genius has died without anyone’s knowledge. However, as Decker steps inside, it’s clear that Penny has died from anything but natural causes…Penny’s children describe their father as a cruel and vindictive man. His second wife knew a man with strange sexual appetites, while the owner of a Californian animal charity speaks only of a kind-hearted old man. But further searches not only add to the list of suspects, but find evidence of a disturbed, depraved mind. So just who was Hobart Penny? A brilliant inventor, a generous philanthropist or a callous killer?

Unfortunately, this book was #21 in Kellerman’s Peter Decker/Rina Lazarus series and I couldn’t get to grips with the story this far into a series. This is my review on Goodreads for one star:

Got so bored with this book that I couldn’t finish it! Kept losing track so simply chose to stop reading.

I don’t think my concentration was completely at fault here as the book seems to be fairly unpopular with other members of the Goodreads community.

The Lie by C L Taylor

The Lie by C L Taylor

My second book was more successful and so I gave The Lie by C L Taylor three stars. The blurb follows:

This was no accident…

Haunting, compelling, this psychological thriller will have you hooked. Perfect for fans of Gone Girl and Daughter.

Best friends are there for each other through thick and thin. You trust them with your life. At least that’s what Emma, Daisy, Leanne and Al think. But all that changes when they embark on a trip of a lifetime together. When they return home, only two of them are left alive and the group has been torn apart by lies and deception.

Many years later, when the dust has settled and life has moved on, one girl receives a threatening letter. Someone knows the truth about what happened on that holiday and will stop at nothing to expose it …

Here is my short review:

Interesting psychological thriller about a group of female friends whose friendship goes horribly awry when they go on holiday together. Very dark and atmospheric in places and a good read. I am so glad that I have never had such nasty “friendships” in my life. The novel is a bit of a cliché, though, so I can’t give it more than three stars.

Pen 33 by Anders Roslund and Börge Hellström

Pen 33 by Anders Roslund and Börge Hellström

Book three was a real Scandi noir thriller: Pen 33 by Anders Roslund and Börge Hellström, #01 in their Grens and Sundkvist series. Here is the blurb:

Two children are found dead in a basement. Four years later, their murderer escapes from prison. The police know if he is not found quickly, he will kill again. But when their worst fears come true and another child is murdered, the situation spirals out of control. In an atmosphere of hysteria whipped up by the media, Fredrik Steffansson, father of the murdered child, decides he must take revenge. His actions will have devastating consequences.

This book really reflected my rather rather bleak mood! I gave it four stars and wrote this review:

Very graphic indeed and so hard to read in places as the book involves paedophilia. Interesting to see it is the first book of a series as it wasn’t written like that at all. In fact it felt as if the main police characters had already been in another book. The plot was written with a strong message about vigilantism and the dangers of people taking “justice” into their own hands. All in all, an exciting and gripping read but you need a very strong stomach to deal with some of the events in the plot.

Please note that this book also has an alternative title: The Beast.

Babylon’s Ashes by James S A Corey

Babylon’s Ashes by James S A Corey

By this stage, I felt that I had recovered enough to tackle another book in my favourite series, The Expanse. I am now part-way though James S A Corey’s Babylon’s Ashes and I will reveal my thoughts on the book next time.

Hope you all enjoy your reading.

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 27/03/18

I managed to get up for a few hours today, after a very bad start, and actually put on a scarf and some earrings for the first time in ages. Yes, the old jumper was the same, but I did try to improve my appearance, even if it made only a tiny difference. I must admit that I actually felt a bit better for doing this, although Lovely Husband didn’t seem to notice. Just as well that I did it for myself, then!

Today’s outfit:

  • Navy wool boxy jumper – WoolOvers.
  • Navy patterned pyjama bottoms – Sainsbury’s.
  • Blue resin and silver earrings.
  • Silk scarf, 70cm, in orange, blues, grey, white and brown – A Feminist at Heart – Karine Assaf via Wolf and Badger. Tied casually by folding into a triangle and knotting at the back. The collage below also shows the scarf turned around the other way, which looks fine too.
Outfit of the day 27/03/18 with Karine Assaf’s A Feminist at Heart scarf

Outfit of the day 27/03/18 with Karine Assaf’s A Feminist at Heart scarf

I will try to write the usual Reading Roundup post tomorrow.

Best wishes,

💚💛❤💜💙

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Update 26/03/18

Well, I have not done that before! Gone a whole week without posting on this blog. Today’s post is a quick catchup about my situation as I still cannot write very much. I really hope that things can get back to “normal” as soon as possible.

Last Monday I woke up feeling reasonably OK, but developed a horribly painful bout of acid reflux. To summarise the whole story, I ended up being unable to keep anything in my stomach. Not even water or tea and certainly not my medications. My whole body had a massive clear out, as you might say, without being too disgusting! I became more and more poorly throughout the rest of the day and then had a terrible night with constant nightmares and weird dreams. Tuesday: I was so weak that I had to crawl to the bathroom and back to bed and had to force myself to try sips of water and tiny bits of food.

Since then, I have improved very, very slowly but even now, a week later, I am still terribly weak. I did manage to get downstairs for a short while on a couple of days, but have stayed in bed for most of the time, mainly watching TV series on Amazon Prime: Vikings and Outlander so far!

Beautiful costumes on Outlander series 1

Beautiful costumes on Outlander series 1

You can tell how ill I have been because I have been unable to read very much and have totally lost interest in what I am wearing! I had a hair appointment for last Tuesday, but was unable to go, so my hair looks dreadful and in dire need of a cut. I cannot even begin to think about scarves and other accessories and have simply slobbed around in old pyjamas topped with an ancient pullover.

Anyway, this just puts you all in the picture. I hope that I can regain some more strength and an interest in the outside world. My brain feels so dull and I cannot concentrate for long.

I will try to blog more positively tomorrow.

Best wishes,

💙💜❤💚💛

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Update 20/03/18

There will be no posts for the time being as I am terribly ill on top of the usual stuff. Will resume as soon as I can.

Best wishes to all visitors,

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Update 16/03/18

First of all, I must apologise for my rather short and unexciting posts this week. It is difficult to write well when recovering from extra illness on top of already existing conditions. I am hoping that I feel stronger next week and that my concentration levels improve. I am even finding it hard to read at the moment! You can tell that I am not well.

I have enjoyed watching a couple of episodes of the new Civilisations TV series and have bought Mary Beard’s book, How Do We Look: The Eye Of Faith. When my concentration comes back, I am sure that I will enjoy reading it as I love her writing style.

How Do We Look: The Eye Of Faith by Mary Beard

How Do We Look: The Eye Of Faith by Mary Beard

Quite heavy stuff following – please feel free to skip this next part!


I picked up blogging again in January last year so that I could have somewhere to practise my writing skills and so that I could log my life as a retired person struggling with chronic health issues. I never intended that the blog would be of interest to many people and it has been very pleasing to see that I do have quite a few visitors. Those that do come appear to be a mixture of old friends, connecting via Facebook in the main, and people from around the world who are interested in my small Hermès scarf collection. I enjoy researching and writing my scarf profile “Scarf of the Moment” posts for visitors as this kind of thing reminds me of the days when I used to create research topics for students coming to my school library. It is so gratifying that people seem to find these kinds of posts useful.

But it remains true that the blog is a diary of my life at the present time. So, please bear with me, and forgive me if you feel that the following is difficult for you to read. I have written many times over the last year about my list of chronic conditions and have detailed what my worst coughing attacks are like. Readers will be aware that I live every day, every hour and every minute, terrified that a severe cough will suddenly grab me by the throat and that I will have to dash to the bathroom with my bottle of water and sick bucket. I then sit on the loo, fighting for each breath, hoping that I will survive. Yes, it all sounds very dramatic and maybe overblown, but this is my life.

This is leading up to something that I am going to admit in public for the first time. In fact, I have only just told my immediate family. I take a range of medicine for all of my conditions, and to counteract the side effects of some of these very medications! For the cough specifically, I take morphine in a very low dose as one of its side effects is that it works as a cough suppressant. This is fairly effective, but I cannot take any extra tablets if I feel a bad cough coming on. To help with this, I also have Codeine Linctus, which is a well known cough medicine, that you can often get over the counter, although I have it on prescription. As I am so scared, virtually all of the time, I have become over-dependent on the codeine linctus. I began to realise that I have been taking far too much of it over quite a long time.

So, I am admitting here that I am trying to cut down on the codeine. It is very difficult for me and I have thought very hard and long about writing this. I feel very ashamed, but want to try to face this and get control again. I hope that, by speaking out, I will be able get a grip on myself and not reach for the medicine bottle when I get nervous.

I will update this blog on how I get on over the next few weeks. My attempts to regain control started on Monday 5th March and I was able to cut down over a few days. I had a setback, however, over the weekend and have not been able to get back to where I was. I will try again from today.


End of heavy stuff!

Phew! Things will return to a more lighthearted view next week. I hope that you all have a great weekend and that the snow promised for the UK does not cause any major problems.

Best wishes,

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Update 15/03/18

There is not much for me to write about today as, yet again, I have been too ill to do very much. I am also thinking hard about an issue I am having and whether I want to talk about it here or not. So, I will continue to mull it over and perhaps I will raise it in tomorrow’s post.

Or not…

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 14/03/18

Only two books read this week and I only finished the second one a few minutes ago! A few things have kept me from book reading: very serious illness over the weekend, a newfound interest in watching Vikings on Amazon Prime, and the fact that the second book was very long. Excuses, excuses, I know 😆.

Perfect Prey by Helen Fields

Perfect Prey by Helen Fields

My first read of the week was an ebook which I had requested after reading #01 in Helen Fields’ DI Callanach series, Perfect Remains. This second book is called Perfect Prey. Here is the blurb:

In the midst of a rock festival, a charity worker is sliced across the stomach. He dies minutes later. In a crowd of thousands, no one saw his attacker. The following week, the body of a primary school teacher is found in a dumpster in an Edinburgh alley, strangled with her own woollen scarf.

DI Ava Turner and DI Luc Callanach have no motive and no leads – until around the city, graffitied on buildings, words appear describing each victim.

It’s only when they realise the words are appearing before rather than after the murders, that they understand the killer is announcing his next victim…and the more innocent the better.

And this is the review that I wrote on Goodreads, whilst awarding the book four stars:

Excellent book and better than the first one in the series. Plenty to grip the reader. Really nasty and gruesome murders, thumping great twists in the plot, interesting main characters with their own issues and foibles and someone who you really wish will get their comeuppance before the end of the book! Strong females, to say the least, and men who are struggling, in some cases. Story arcs that keep you wanting to read the next book in the series. And so I will…

Can I just add that, in my opinion, this book is definitely for adult readers and not suitable for a school library, even with a sixth form? Some of the issues are best understood by mature readers!

Nemesis Games by James S A Corey

Nemesis Games by James S A Corey

The second book was #05 of James S A Corey’s The Expanse series, Nemesis Games. As you are no doubt aware, I cannot get enough of this amazing science fiction series and am working my way through them all. Here is the blurb:

A thousand worlds have opened, and the greatest land rush in human history has begun. As wave after wave of colonists leave, the power structures of the old solar system begin to buckle.

Ships are disappearing without a trace. Private armies are being secretly formed. The sole remaining protomolecule sample is stolen. Terrorist attacks previously considered impossible bring the inner planets to their knees. The sins of the past are returning to exact a terrible price.

And as a new human order is struggling to be born in blood and fire, James Holden and the crew of the Rocinante must struggle to survive and get back to the only home they have left.

As I said at the beginning of this post, I only finished the book a few minutes ago. You know when you can’t wait to get to the end of a book to find out what happens, but at the same time are sad to finish it? Well, this was one of those reads and I simply had to give it the full five stars. This is my review:

Fabulous! My favourite book of the series so far. I loved how we got to know the four crew members even better because of the way that the plot split them up and sent them in different directions. There was some almost heart stopping stuff and some heartbreaking stuff too. Interesting back stories and incredible adventure. I already have the next book lined up and am searching on the public library catalogue to see where I will go after that…

I couldn’t write any more because I was still enthralled by the book. Actually, at this point I should really recommend reading other reviews on Goodreads. Many of them are very good indeed and their writers are far more articulate than I am.

Anyway, I haven’t quite decided which book I am going to tackle next, so I might just watch another episode of Vikings before I dive into my next read…

Happy reading to you all!

Best wishes,

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