Reading roundup 19/04/18

I haven’t written one of these for a while, so I have a few books to tell you about. The first book was worth the full five stars and I also put it into my “Favourites” category on Goodreads:

Persepolis Rising By James SA Corey

Persepolis Rising By James SA Corey

Persepolis Rising by James S A Corey is the seventh book in The Expanse series. Here is the blurb:

In the thousand-sun network of humanity’s expansion, new colony worlds are struggling to find their way. Every new planet lives on a knife edge between collapse and wonder, and the crew of the aging gunship Rocinante have their hands more than full keeping the fragile peace.

In the vast space between Earth and Jupiter, the inner planets and belt have formed a tentative and uncertain alliance still haunted by a history of wars and prejudices. On the lost colony world of Laconia, a hidden enemy has a new vision for all of humanity and the power to enforce it.

New technologies clash with old as the history of human conflict returns to its ancient patterns of war and subjugation. But human nature is not the only enemy, and the forces being unleashed have their own price. A price that will change the shape of humanity — and of the Rocinante — unexpectedly and forever…

This is my Goodreads review:

I took longer than usual to read this book because I wanted to savour it. As I came to this series a bit late in the day, I have been able to read all of the seven books so far without waiting in between for any to be published. Now I will have to wait around for number 8! All I can say is that this must be my favourite so far and I have added it to my “Favourites” list. The book is a stonking read, an absolutely brilliantly observed tale of empire building and the way that humans lie to themselves about their darker impulses. I can’t say much more without writing spoilers, but must advise anyone thinking of reading this book, or any others in the main series, to read them from the beginning in the correct order. This is not a series where you can dip in and out. Just start at book 1 and enjoy the amazing ride! I am almost envious of anyone who is about to begin.

Oh, how I wish #08 was already published!

The War Widow by Lorna Gray

The War Widow by Lorna Gray

The next book was an ebook called The War Widow by Lorna Gray. This was a totally serendipitous choice from our library service’s digital collection. This is the blurb:

The echoes of war live long in the mind…

Wales, 1947

Injured and terrified after an attempted abduction, desperation drives artist Kate Ward to the idyllic scene of her ex-husband’s recent suicide. Labelled a hysterical, grieving divorcée, no one believes she is being pursued by two violent men demanding answers she cannot give. Not the police, not the doctors, and not the guests at the Aberystwyth hotel she has come to in an attempt to find out what happened to her charismatic photographer ex-husband, and why her sanity—and her life—are now at risk.

Kate can trust no one, not even the reclusive war-veteran-turned-crime-novelist, Adam Hitchen, a reserved widower and the only source of kindness in a shadowy world of suspicion and fear. And as ghosts old and new rise to haunt her, Kate must rely on all her strength and courage to uncover the shocking truth hidden within a twisted web of lies…

I enjoyed this book and awarded it three stars. Here is my review:

I am not sure what to say about this book. I chose it on a whim, from our library’s ebook catalogue, and was given only a vague idea of what it might be about. The plot was interesting, a psychological thriller, I suppose, set in the 1940s. It felt authentic to the period and I enjoyed some of the interplay between the male and female characters, so restricted by the manners and mores of the time. But it was very confusing in parts and I kind of lost track of what was going on at times. The heroine’s constant introspection and convoluted internal musings became rather irritating too. So, this deserves slightly more than three stars, but not quite four IMHO.

Tell Me No Lies by Lisa Hall

Tell Me No Lies by Lisa Hall

The following book was from my book pile: Tell Me No Lies by Lisa Hall. This time the blurb is very short:

Don’t. Trust. Anyone.

It was supposed to be a fresh start.

A chance to forget the past and embrace the future.

But can you ever really start again?

Or does the past follow you wherever you go…

I’m afraid my reaction to this book was rather negative:

Truly dreadful book. Why on earth did I waste my time with this and actually finish it? Nothing positive to say, so I won’t write any more.

See? I gave it only one star and put it in my “Rubbish Bin” category!

White Bodies by Jane Robins

White Bodies by Jane Robins

Luckily, my last book of the week was somewhat better to read. White Bodies by Jane Robins was another ebook. Here is the blurb:

Felix and Tilda seem like the perfect couple: young and in love, a financier and a beautiful up-and-coming starlet. But behind their flawless facade, not everything is as it seems.

Callie, Tilda’s unassuming twin, has watched her sister visibly shrink under Felix’s domineering love. She has looked on silently as Tilda stopped working, nearly stopped eating, and turned into a neat freak, with mugs wrapped in Saran Wrap and suspicious syringes hidden in the bathroom trash. She knows about Felix’s uncontrollable rages, and has seen the bruises on the white skin of her sister’s arms.

Worried about the psychological hold that Felix seems to have over Tilda, Callie joins an Internet support group for victims of abuse and their friends. However, things spiral out of control and she starts to doubt her own judgment when one of her new acquaintances is killed by an abusive man. And then suddenly Felix dies–or was he murdered?

This was a much more successful book, worth a solid three stars, and here is what I wrote:

A very odd book indeed. The main plot has been done so many times, but this version had its unique moments and these, for the most part, were quite good. There were certainly some excellent moments and some very unexpected happenings. I found that the book dragged somewhat in the middle, but the ending was pretty good. Worth a read if you like creepy thrillers.

i am currently enjoying watching Battlestar Galactica via my Amazon Prime subscription, so that might interfere with reading! When my concentration is good, I will begin my next book:

Three Minutes by Anders Roslund and Börge Hellström

Three Minutes by Anders Roslund and Börge Hellström

I will let you all know how that goes next week.

Happy Reading to you all and best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 18/04/18: All is well

All is well! Lovely Husband is back home, looking like a pirate with an eye-patch. The lads still have a toy parrot and they did suggest that he could add it to his accessories for a while, but that was declined 😄.

Younger Son drove his Dad to the local hospital this afternoon for the operation (cataract removal) and was intending go alone to pick him up afterwards. Apparently, LH was working out the odds on me going along too. Of course, he was entirely correct as, when the nurse rang to say we could set off, I jumped out of bed, flung my jeans on and was out of the door in minutes! Then I sat, wheezing, in the car on the way to the hospital and was very wobbly when I got out of the car.

Anyway, thanks to everyone on FB who helped me to stop panicking last night. We have full aftercare instructions and, hopefully, LH will soon be his usual self again.

Today’s outfit:

  • Purple cotton mix short-sleeved top – Lands’ End.
  • Purple cotton mix cardigan – Lands’ End.
  • Indigo jeans – Cotton Traders.
  • Turquoise and purple soutache earrings – via Etsy.
  • Purple enamel and gold chain bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in turquoise, purple, brick and beige – La Promenade de Platon – Hermès. In a simple bias fold tie.
Outfit of the day 18/04/18 with Hermès La Promenade de Platon scarf

Outfit of the day 18/04/18 with Hermès La Promenade de Platon scarf

It has been so hot today that I actually took off the scarf and cardigan. Such a gorgeous day! I hope it is as nice tomorrow as I will try to go out for a short walk, if I am able.

Best wishes,

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Update 17/04/18: Stress and anxiety

One of the causes of my health issues is stress. This family has had a lot of difficulties for a long time and we seem to have had to weather more storms than many others. Trying to stay strong for my chaps eventually resulted in my mental and physical health collapsing in my 50s and I continue to struggle daily. Sadly, Lovely Husband is now also battling with a wide range of health problems too.

When I get stressed my cough gets worse. However hard I try to remain calm, my body betrays the state of my mind. So I am struggling this evening as I am so worried about LH. He is having a cataract operation tomorrow. Yes, I know it is very common and thousands of people recover well and are absolutely fine afterwards, but I can’t help worrying.

I will try to update the blog tomorrow evening, all being well.

Best wishes,

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Wardrobe planning #27: Wearing pocket squares

Hermés pocket squares, also known as gavroches, are 45×45 cms of gorgeous silk twill. They can look so cute and are quite versatile. I like them as they add a fun finishing touch to many outfits and work well with my mainly casual wardrobe. So far, I own five:

My Hermès gavroche collection

My Hermès gavroche collection

Clockwise from top left: Savana Dance, Bibliothéque, Bateau Fleuri, Zebra Pegasus and Appaloosa des Steppes.


I used to have a fairly slim, long neck, but unfortunately it has thickened in recent years as I have put on a lot of weight with my illness. This means that some of the ways of tying gavroches don’t work well for me as these make the fabric too tight and uncomfortable. These are the ways that I like wearing my gavroches:

Hermès gavroches - scarf ties

Hermès gavroches – scarf ties

Um, well I looked through all of my selfies and realised that I couldn’t find much variety in how I wear these pocket squares! I tend to wear them in the same way most of the time – as in the bottom left image in the collage above. So, I began to think about what I could do about this. After all, Hermès scarves, in any size, are far from cheap and as I have invested quite a lot of cash in my small collection, I want to make the most of all of my scarves.

That became a bit of a puzzle and so I turned to that fount of all scarf knowledge, The Purse Forum (link in the right-hand sidebar), for more information. On there I could see that many members use a particular scarf ring, the Mors, to extend the size of a gavroche to make a bit more space around the neck. This is the one (it comes in both silver and gold tone):

Hermès Mors scarf ring

Hermès Mors scarf ring

But then I looked at the price – £145! I simply could not justify spending that much on a scarf ring. Also, I thought that I would not like that much metal near my neck. Other people love it of course and look great wearing scarves tied using this ring. It can be used for a wide range of scarf sizes and types. But perhaps it is not for me.

Anyway, I thought more about this issue and after a while came up with a very cheap and easy alternative idea. The Mors has a single ring at one end and a double at the other. I had a look on eBay and found some D-rings that would work for my plan. They are extremely low cost and come in a variety of sizes and colours. Mine are about 1.5cm in both directions.

I then realised that the Hermès Bolduc ribbon would fit on these rings really nicely. And, boy, do I have a lot of that collected over the years! This is what I mean:

D-rings and Bolduc ribbon

D-rings and Bolduc ribbon

Cut the length of ribbon that would work for you. This is entirely subjective! I chose to have a finished item of about 15cm as this fits nicely across the back of my neck. I simply put two D-rings at each end, wrapped the ribbon around and then sewed it all together. Easy-peasy!

Finished article – my “contraption”!

To use this “contraption” to tie your scarf, simply fold the scarf into a triangle and then pass one of the ends up through the double D-ring and back through a single D-ring and pull the scarf fairly firmly to tighten, like this:

How to tie the scarf end

How to tie the scarf end

Put the scarf around your neck and do the same with the other end of the scarf. To make everything more secure, you could knot the scarf ends off, like this:

Knot the scarf end

Knot the scarf end

For variety, instead of using Bolduc, other kinds of ribbon would work well too and you could tone the colour of the ribbon with your favourite scarves. If you hate sewing, you could even simply knot your ribbon to the D-rings! I think that would work, although you might have to deal with rather too many knots behind your neck.

Using ribbons to make more “contraptions”

Using ribbons to make more “contraptions”

Anyway, this is the difference that using my “contraption” makes to my usual scarf tie for the gavroche. I like this a lot as it gives me more versatility and shows off more of the scarf. Long hair or a shirt or jacket collar would also hide the device nicely. Now to try it with other scarf knots for my pocket squares!

Bibliothéque tied using the “contraption”

Bibliothéque tied using the “contraption”

You may remember the image at the top left in the collage above? This one…

Hermès Zebra Pegasus gavroche

Hermès Zebra Pegasus gavroche

Zebra Pegasus was my first gavroche and I cheated when I took this picture as the scarf was simply draped around my neck without actually being tied. I might try to replicate this look using my new device. I will update the blog as and when I use it to make new scarf knots.

BTW, can anyone think of a good name for it. I can’t keep using the words contraption or device for it as this sounds more than odd. Rather Victorian in fact!

I hope that readers have enjoyed this post and found it interesting and useful.

Best wishes,

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Update 13/04/18

Sorry that this post is so late this evening. I am just feeling very tired after a fairly OK kind of day. This is similar to what I intended to wear today, but I ended up simply slinging a jumper over my pyjamas – how lazy! And what a contrast to yesterday 😊. Never mind, I will try to make more effort next week.

Outfit with Lands’ End, Accessorize and Halcyon Days

Outfit with Lands’ End, Accessorize and Halcyon Days

I have also realised that I have been very remiss in not replying to comments on these posts for ages. Rapping myself across the knuckles for that! I love getting comments so much and I promise that I will answer them over the weekend.

Best wishes to you all for a wonderful weekend. Here’s hoping that the weather improves and that Spring decides to arrive.

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Outfit of the day 12/04/18

Back again! I am feeling so much better than I did a few days ago. When I get something on top of my usual list of conditions, I am completely knocked out. I won’t go into the nasty details but I felt absolutely dreadful for quite a few days and was too weak even to read, let alone write blog posts.

So, today I managed to pick myself up and sort myself out. I even put some makeup on in honour of my latest scarf purchase. Yes, another Hermès scarf, this time a gavroche that I had been looking for and found on eBay. There were three different colourways on offer and I took a risk and chose this amazing brightly coloured one. It has shades of fuchsia pink, orange, blue, green and yellow. If it had been a 90cm, I think the scarf would have overwhelmed me, but as a tiny 45cm it looks like a jewelled necklace. Well, that’s what I like to think!

Here it is: Bibliothéque. Now you can see why I simply had to own this one! Books, books!

Bibliothéque gavroche - Hermès

Bibliothéque gavroche – Hermès

I wore it with this outfit:

  • Cobalt cotton cable jumper – Lands’ End.
  • Navy cord leggings – Lands’ End.
  • Blue crystal and silver earrings – Sonrisa Boutique.
  • Cobalt enamel and gold Curb Chain bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Silk gavroche, 45cm in pink, orange, blue, green and yellow – Bibliothéque – Hermès.
Outfit of the day 12/04/18 with Hermès’ Bibliothéque gavroche

Outfit of the day 12/04/18 with Hermès’ Bibliothéque gavroche

We weren’t able to go out, but I have had a nice relaxing day so far. Oh and I will write a Scarf of the Moment post about Bibliothéque as soon as I can get enough information together.

Best wishes,

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Update 09/04/18

There will be no posts for the time being as I am terribly ill on top of the usual stuff. Will resume as soon as I can.

Best wishes to all visitors,

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Scarf of the moment: Persepolis

This Scarf of the Moment post is about the gorgeous and intriguing Persepolis scarf, designed by Sophie Koechlin for Hermès in 2000, and also reissued several times since. I am not sure of the date of my own version (nor the season). I see this as the sister scarf to my Les Secrets de Minos, by the same designer.

I told the story of my acquisition of the scarf from Rennies when I wrote the reveal post: Update 13/02/18 and reveal! As I have said before, I have continued to collect Hermès scarves over the last four years and have realised that there are many designs which appeal to my interests and experiences in life. I have a BA and an MA in Ancient History and Archaeology and part of my studies touched on Ancient Persia and its empire. This scarf’s design is inspired by the art, architecture and symbolism of the period.

Description

The design elements of the scarf were inspired by the art of the Ancient Persians in the city of Persepolis, which means City of the Persians in Greek. The city dates from around 515 BC until its destruction by the armies of Alexander the Great in 330 BC. In the Background section below, I have included information from websites and videos about the ancient city.

My scarf is the 90cm silk twill (I am not sure if the design has been produced in any other versions) and it has a wide border in a rich, glowing red surrounding a design utilising many shades of red, teal, blue, purple and yellow. The design is unfussy with simple shapes, clear colours and minimal use of shading. People and mythical animals are very stylised. The four corners have images of human figures set into decorated triangles. Larger images, including an oared ship, rest on top, orientated towards the centre of the scarf. This enables lovely scarf ties when worn. The central part of the design shows King Darius I in his horse-drawn chariot with his soldiers and slaves. Intriguing creatures and plants are placed around the design.

Colourways

I have not been able to find many good images of all of the many different colourways, so will add more if I find any better ones at a later date:

Design story

This is the design story from the Fall 2000/01 scarf booklet:

In our innocence we believe the world to be eternal. But where did all the great civilizations of antiquity end up? What happened to the Persian Empire, with all its warriors and navigators, whom Alexander once dreamed of defeating? We are left with the theories of historians who tire themselves out by recreating lives from dusty ruins. Poor souls, they see only with the dull eyes of erudition. So, to offer them the spectacle of bubbling reality, here is Darius I, the founder of Persepolis, amongst his royal guard and followed by his faithful retinue.

Details

Here are some closeups of my scarf in a sideshow format:

How I wear the scarf

I have worn the scarf only once so far, as it was given to me as a present at the beginning of this week. As the border is so wide, I would tend to use scarf knots which highlight the central portions. You can see some of my suggestions in the next section below.

The best colours to wear with it appear to be blues, turquoise and teal, and perhaps purple. You can see it below with one of my Lands’ End twin-sets in bright teal. I have several outfits that would suit the scarf well, even if the colours in this scarf are quite a departure from my usual choices!

Outfit of the day 03/04/18 with Hermès’ Persepolis scarf
Outfit of the day 03/04/18 with Hermès’ Persepolis scarf

I have many accessories in shades of blue, teal and purple which will be lovely with the scarf.

Scarf ties

Here are a few ties that I have tried out with the scarf and I will add more in the future if I decide to tie it in different ways. Even though the border is so wide, it is such a gorgeous shade of red that it worth showing off!

Persepolis - scarf ties
Persepolis – scarf ties

Top row L-R: simple bias fold, reverse bias fold, necklace knot.
Middle row L-R: cowboy cowl knot, cowl knot, cowboy knot.
Bottom row L-R: asymmetric wrap, asymmetric wrap reversed, neck wrap.
Horn shawl and scarf rings by MaiTai – link in the sidebar.

Background information

Now, here are a few links to give you information about Persepolis and the Persian Empire:

Wikipedia
Persepolis
Main article about the ancient city.

Ancient History Encyclopedia
Persepolis
Informative article.

Khan Academy
Persian art: an introduction
Whole section to explore on Persian Art and the city of Persepolis. Excellent resource.


I hope you have enjoyed this tour around Hermès’ Persepolis. My next project will be to update another of my existing Scarf of the Moment posts. Any votes as to which one you would like me to tackle first?

Best wishes,

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Growing out the grey: update 05/04/18

Here is the monthly update about my progress towards totally grey hair. I made a mistake at first last month and said that it had been six months since my last colour, but I was wrong. It was five months. So, now it is six months and I had hoped that the colour would have all gone by this stage. Unfortunately, I have missed two hair appointments this year, one quite recently, and so I don’t look how I had envisaged. I can hope that my health improves enough to go get a good haircut very soon.

Anyway, please excuse the pyjamas but here is what I look like today. I have simply washed and left my hair as I don’t have the energy to do anything else. Just experimenting with the very red lipstick – I haven’t worn anything this bright for decades!

I am hoping to have a Scarf of the Moment post about my Hermès’ Persepolis ready for tomorrow, if not, it will be uploaded next week.

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 04/04/18

I have read a couple of books this week and have also been to the local library to choose my next pile. There are also several ebooks waiting for me in BorrowBox! So, I have plenty of fabulous books all lined up 😄.

Babylon’s Ashes by James S A Corey

Babylon’s Ashes by James S A Corey

The first book I finished was Babylon’s Ashes by James S A Corey, #06 in The Expanse series. Here is the blurb:

The Free Navy – a violent group of Belters in black-market military ships – has crippled the Earth and begun a campaign of piracy and violence among the outer planets. The colony ships heading for the thousand new worlds on the far side of the alien ring gates are easy prey, and no single navy remains strong enough to protect them.

James Holden and his crew know the strengths and weaknesses of this new force better than anyone. Outnumbered and outgunned, the embattled remnants of the old political powers call on the Rocinante for a desperate mission to reach Medina Station at the heart of the gate network.

But the new alliances are as flawed as the old, and the struggle for power has only just begun. As the chaos grows, an alien mystery deepens. Pirate fleets, mutiny, and betrayal may be the least of the Rocinante’s problems. And in the uncanny spaces past the ring gates, the choices of a few damaged and desperate people may determine the fate of more than just humanity.

And here is my review. I gave the book three stars on Goodreads – it wasn’t quite as good as the others in the series so far. As I have still been so ill, my reviews are even shorter than usual this week – sorry!

Another huge read and this one felt like a bridging book hopefully leading us to something better in the next one. I did enjoy it, particularly the second half when I could begin to see progress in the story. The main characters are still great, although we didn’t get to see enough interaction between the Roci crew members. I already have the next book, Persepolis Rising, lined up and I hope that this one is better as I love this series so much and want it to progress towards an outstanding finish and not limp to the line and collapse.

Perfect Death by Helen Fields

Perfect Death by Helen Fields

My second book of the week was Perfect Death by Helen Fields, #03 in her DI Callanach series. I reserved this on our library service’s ebook catalogue a while ago after enjoying the first two books. This is the blurb:

There’s no easy way to die…

Unknown to DI Luc Callanach and the newly promoted DCI Ava Turner, a serial killer has Edinburgh firmly in his grip. The killer is taking his victims in the coldest, most calculating way possible – engineering slow and painful deaths by poison, with his victims entirely unaware of the drugs flooding their bloodstream until it’s too late.

But how do you catch a killer who hides in the shadows? A killer whose pleasure comes from watching pain from afar? Faced with their most difficult case yet, Callanach and Turner soon realise they face a seemingly impossible task…

Here is my review as posted on Goodreads for four stars:

Another excellent episode in the series and I cannot wait for the next one. The main characters continue to be developed and become more interesting. The plot is gripping and very dark with many unexpected turns. Highly recommended.

As I wrote above, I am now about to tackle #07 in The Expanse series, James S A Corey’s Persepolis Rising. Should I take a photo of the book with my Persepolis scarf?

Persepolis Rising By James SA Corey

Persepolis Rising By James SA Corey

Anyway, I will give you my verdict next week in the Reading Roundup.

Until then, Happy Reading to you all 😀.

Best wishes,

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