Update 31/05/19

I am having a very mixed kind of day. My illness is very bad and I am feeling pretty poorly, but, at the same time, I am also really happy because Younger Son is coming to stay overnight before going on his holiday with friends tomorrow. The airport they are using is quite near to us. He will also stop over in a week’s time on the way back home.

I have tried to do a few things, like changing beds, but am so very tired and weak and have to keep returning to bed. Never mind, it will be lovely to see him!

Anyway, I hope that you all have a great weekend and I will tell you how it goes in my next post.

Best wishes,

😁😁😁😁😁

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Outfit of the day 30/05/19

My counselling session was moved to this morning and I am pleased that I was feeling well enough to go. There were quite a few issues that I needed to talk through, so it was really worth the journey.

As for my outfit, I decided to have a complete change of colour scheme: coral and other shades of pink instead of purple. This Parures de Samouraïs design for Hermès has become a really popular and sought-after scarf, some colourways achieving amazing prices! I love wearing mine with this bright coral pink Lands’ End twinset.

Outfit of the day 30/05/19 with Hermès’ Parures de Samouraïs scarf

Today’s outfit:

  • Coral pink cotton mix crew neck top – Lands’ End.
  • Coral pink cotton mix crew neck cardigan – Lands’ End.
  • Indigo cotton straight leg jeans – Klass.
  • Crystal and gold stud earrings.
  • Coral enamel and gold Agama bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Eau-de-nil and cream enamel, and gold Agama bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in aqua, coral, cream and ice blue – Parures de Samouraïs – Hermès. Tied in a “Fifi” knot named after a lovely member of The Purse Forum.

My counselling appointment raised a lot of thoughts that I have been mulling over all afternoon. If I am in the right frame of mind tomorrow, I may share some of these in a post.

Oh, I nearly forgot! I had some great news yesterday evening: Younger Son is coming to stay overnight tomorrow on his way to the airport for his holiday flight – whoop! I can’t wait to see him and give him a biiiiiig hug 🤗.

Best wishes,

💙💜💚💛🧡

PS. If you are interested in reading more about the lovely Parures de Samouraïs scarf, do have a look at this Scarf of the Moment post.

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Reading roundup 29/05/19

This week I read two books and started on a third. The first was a long-awaited book by one of my favourite authors, the second a quick ebook read. I will tell you about the third next week when I have, hopefully, finished it!

A Book of Bones by John Connolly

I had been in a long queue for A Book of Bones (Charlie Parker #17), by John Connolly before I picked it up the other week. My Library allows reservations in advance of the book arriving in stock. I am not sure how many copies the County bought, but it did take a while for it to become available for me to collect.  Mind you, I really don’t care about the wait as using the Library saved me £20, less the £1 reservation fee.

Anyway, here is the blurb:

He is our best hope.

He is our last hope.

On lonely moor in the northeast of England, the body of a young woman is discovered near the site of a vanished church. In the south, a girl lies buried beneath a Saxon mound. To the southeast, the ruins of a priory hide a human skull.

Each is a sacrifice, a summons.

And something in the darkness has heard the call.

But another is coming: Parker the hunter, the avenger. From the forests of Maine to the deserts of the Mexican border, from the canals of Amsterdam to the streets of London, he will track those who would cast this world into darkness.

Parker fears no evil.

But evil fears him . . .

I took my time over reading this as I tend to read very quickly, skimming over some parts. As this series is so special to me, I wanted to savour every page – over 700 of them! Sadly, though, in the end I was rather disappointed. Here is my review on Goodreads with an award of four stars (I usually give this series five!):

I realise that I am in a tiny minority on here with my opinion of this book. John Connolly as the author and this book series, are amongst my most favourite reading experiences of all. So, I looked forward to reading the book and I read it slowly and thoroughly, taking my time to enjoy every word. But, I am so sad to say, the book just didn’t resonate for me like the previous ones in the series. It is difficult to explain why without giving away spoilers.

I just felt that the tale was told from too many points of view. Some strands became difficult to follow and were perhaps cluttering up the narrative. Charlie and his “team” were not present enough and I felt that the reader was distracted by too many other characters. Of course this series is full of bloody and gruesome deaths, but some in this particular book were superfluous and almost as if the author wished to deliberately toy with his readers. By this I mean that he manipulated us as readers into empathising with certain characters, only to dispose of them in unnecessarily cruel and rather sadistic ways, in my very humble opinion.

I am certain that I will continue to read more books in the series, but I hope that the next one goes back to the very best that I know Connolly can produce.

One thing that I forgot to write in my review was that I enjoyed the fact that a lot of the story was set in England, although the author made a couple of historical errors. One of which was that Saxons lived on these islands before the Romans came – don’t think so!

The Disappeared by CJ Box

I still felt quite overwhelmed after finishing A Book of Bones, so decided to have a change of pace to something easier to read. CJ Box is another author who has created a very long series. My latest read in his Joe Pickett series, #18 The Disappeared, popped into my library ebook account this week. This is the blurb:

Wyoming’s new governor isn’t sure what to make of Joe Pickett, but he has a job for him that is extremely delicate. Three British executives, all women, never came home from the high-end guest ranch they were visiting, and the British Embassy is pressing hard. Pickett knows that happens sometimes–these ranches are stocked with handsome young cowboys, and “ranch romances” aren’t uncommon. But three disappearances? That’s too many.

At the same time, with the help of his friend Nate Romanowski, he’s been called to investigate the killings of several bald and golden eagles–a serious federal crime. The more he investigates both cases, the more someone wants him to go away. Is it because of the missing woman or the dead eagles? Or are they somehow connected? The answers, when they come, will be even worse than he’d imagined.

I finished this book very very quickly and wrote the following three star review:

Wow! The ending was so abrupt in this book! I really didn’t enjoy how that cliffhanger was created. I usually love this series: the main characters are generally likeable and the central investigation is interesting set in a really well-drawn background. This time it simply wasn’t good enough. It all felt very samey. Also, is the author getting money for his name-dropping adverts for clothing and footwear?

Yes, we get that the author doesn’t like politicians or most government employees, apart from Joe himself. I don’t think he likes most Brits either! I will read more in the series, probably, but I think he probably needs to move on to something new.

Holy Sister by Mark Lawrence

Now that I have finished those two books, I am reading the final book in Mark Lawrence’s Book of the Ancestor trilogy: Holy Sister. I will let you know how I get on next week.

Happy Reading to you all!

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 28/05/19

I think we broke a record this morning! Lovely Husband drove me to my appointment with my main consultant (who, by the way, is excellent) and we arrived to an almost empty waiting room. We only had to sit for a few minutes before we were called in. Usually, the waiting area is heaving and we have to wait for ages, sometimes even hours!

Anyway, the really good news is that I have actually lost a little bit of weight since my last visit, and my blood pressure is totally normal. The doctor made it very clear that I have to make myself exercise to prevent the very serious consequences of becoming totally bedridden with muscle wastage and loss of bone. He appreciated that this is extremely difficult for me to achieve, but emphasised that, somehow, I have to try to force myself. Lovely Husband, who was a PE teacher, is fully on board, as you would expect, and I have told him that he must kick me up the bum (metaphorically speaking!), if I don’t.

So, I must get my exercise chair out of the garage, blow off the dust, and use it regularly. Also, I really must walk around the area as often as I can. Yes, I know I have said and written this lots of times before, but I have been given a real wake up call!

Today’s outfit was one of my favourites and one of the nurses remarked on my obvious love of purple and lilac!

Outfit of the day 28/05/19 with Hermès Jaguar Quetzal scarf

Today’s outfit:

  • Purple cotton mix crew-neck top – Lands’ End.
  • Pale lilac cotton mix crew-neck cardigan – Lands’ End.
  • Indigo cotton straight leg jeans – Klass.
  • Violet resin and gold Medusa earrings – Grand Tour Collection.
  • Blue iris leather and pale gold Vara bow wrap bracelet – Ferragamo. This matches the scarf’s contrast hem.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in mauve, violet, blue and yellow – Jaguar Quetzal – Hermès. I folded the scarf into a triangle then rolled it to show off the gorgeous denim blue contrast hem. It was secured with a purple lacquered horn anneau infinity scarf ring from MaiTai.

To complete my “explosion” of purple shades, I carried my lovely amethyst pebbled leather Victoria handbag by Massaccesi. I had intended to wear my new Hotter trainer shoes in polar white (a very pale greyish mauve), but it was drizzling, so I changed them for navy shoes instead.

I was very tired when we arrived back home, probably from all of the walking around the car park and hospital, so have been in bed since, but I am determined to do some exercise tomorrow. I will let you all know how that goes.

Best wishes,

💜💜💜💜💜

PS. If you would like more information about the gorgeous Hermès Jaguar Quetzal scarf, please have a look at this Scarf of the Moment post.

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Outfit of the day 27/05/19

We had a very relaxing weekend all in all. When I say relaxing, it may not have been for our neighbours. Lovely Husband has his ”music night” every Sunday evening and his favourite music is rock, played very loud. He usually listens to three albums in a row and switches it all off by 10.30, so next door have agreed that he can do this (very accommodating of them in my opinion!). I also like very similar bands (most of the time) so I listen from the bedroom above. It is impossible to concentrate on a book with all of this going on, so I tend to browse random sites in between frantic attempts at air guitar!

Anyway, last night’s performers were The Editors, Blue Oyster Cult and Suede. LH and I are huge fans of Suede’s latest album, The Blue Hour. I wish we were both well enough to go see them.

Today, I decided to wear my lovely kimono from One Hundred Stars. It is very comfortable and even LH approved:

Outfit of the day 27/05/19 with One Hundred Stars’ kimono

Today’s outfit:

  • White cotton sleeveless vest – Lands’ End.
  • Beige stretch cotton chinos – Lands’ End.
  • White enamel and rose gold Ianthe pendant – Liberty of London.
  • Pink, beige, cream and black viscose/modal Crane kimono – One Hundred Stars.

Tomorrow I have an appointment with my main consultant. I will have to be very honest about my deteriorating health situation and try not to cringe or cry when they tell me my current weight. I am really dreading finding out. It is obvious that I am continuing to gain weight because so many of my clothes from last Summer are far too tight. I really don’t want to have to buy more from even larger sizes. Oh, this is so depressing and I had better end this post before I say any more.

Best wishes,

🧡💚❤️💙💜💛

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Outfit of the day 24/05/19

I seem to be writing almost the same thing each day: once again I have been too ill to go out and had to miss my counselling appointment. I had quite a good night’s sleep and wasn’t woken up by coughing, but I felt very weak and breathless this morning and unable to get out of bed. Later on, after breakfast and my huge load of medication, I did get dressed and then went downstairs to sit with Lovely Husband for a couple of hours. Now, as I write this post, I am back in bed again and will read for most of the afternoon and evening.

My new scarf, Hermès’ Musique des Dieux, has been hanging up overnight so that some of the creases would drop out and also to air it a bit. It has obviously been well worn in the past (it dates back to 1996), and has traces of makeup and other marks. I couldn’t find any damage, apart from one tiny thread pull which can hardly be seen, so it has been a good purchase for the price I paid. I will have to be brave and wash it soon, which does make me rather nervous, but there is plenty of advice about this on The Purse Forum.

Anyway, I did wear a nice outfit for a few hours because I wanted to try out both this scarf and my new shoes. If we had gone out, I would have worn my jeans instead of the joggers.

Outfit of the day 24/05/19 with Hermès’ Musique des Dieux scarf

Today’s outfit:

  • Fresh lavender cotton sleeveless vest – Lands’ End.
  • Blackberry cotton mix round neck cardigan – Lands’ End.
  • Navy cotton joggers – Cotton Traders.
  • Silver and crystal earrings.
  • Polar white lace-up trainers – Brooke – Hotter.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in lilac, purple, green, blue, black and white – Musique des Dieux – Hermès. Tied in an asymmetric wrap using a MaiTai mother-of-pearl scarf ring.

Lets hope that we all have good health and enjoyable weekend (Bank Holiday in England).

Best wishes,

💜💜💜💜💜

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Update 23/05/19 with an unexpected reveal!

I am very unwell today but have been lifted a little by an arrival in the post! This is a “grail” that I have been hoping would come along for quite a long time. As it was an eBay purchase, there is no interesting parcel or iconic box to show you, so I will go straight into the first picture…

The folded scarf…

More folds…

And still more…

Here it is arranged on the bed. Lovely design and colours – lilac, purple, mauve, blue, green, white and black…

Here is the image from eBay of the whole design (the colours in my photos above are more accurate)…

Hermès fans will recognise this as Musique des Dieux, designed in 1996 by Claudia Stuhlhofer-Mayr. As I am ill today, I don’t have enough strength to take modelling photos to show you or write any more detail, but I am planning a proper Scarf of the Moment post. I will explain why this is a “grail” scarf for me in that post.

Best wishes,

❤️💙💜💚💛🧡

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Reading roundup 22/05/19

I completed one very thick book this week. It was Mark Lawrence’s The Wheel of Osheim (#03 in his The Red Queen’s War trilogy). What a book! Please check out last week’s Reading Roundup post for more details of the previous two books in the series.

The Wheel of Osheim by Mark Lawrence

Before I write any more, here is the blurb:

All the horrors of Hell stand between Snorri Ver Snagason and the rescue of his family, if indeed the dead can be rescued. For Jalan Kendeth, getting back out alive and with Loki’s key is all that matters. Loki’s creation can open any lock, any door, and it may also be the key to Jalan’s fortune back in the living world.

Jalan plans to return to the three w’s that have been the core of his idle and debauched life: wine, women, and wagering. Fate however has other plans, larger plans. The Wheel of Osheim is turning ever faster, and it will crack the world unless it’s stopped. When the end of all things looms, and there’s nowhere to run, even the worst coward must find new answers. Jalan and Snorri face many dangers, from the corpse hordes of the Dead King to the many mirrors of the Lady Blue, but in the end, fast or slow, the Wheel of Osheim always pulls you back. In the end it’s win or die.

This last book in the trilogy appears to bring the story arcs of Lawrence’s first series – The Broken Empire – and his second series – The Red Queen’s War – together in a final conclusion. Of course, the author could decide to revisit this world and his wonderful characters – I certainly wouldn’t complain!

Anyway, I simply had to give the book the full five stars and here is my review – it was very difficult to write as my head is still spinning!

It’s official: Mark Lawrence has now joined my very select list of favourite authors. Make way whilst I read everything he has ever written! Then I will wait with bated breath for him to write even more amazing books!

OK, so it’s now obvious that I loved this final episode of his The Red Queen’s War series. I loved the excitement, the sheer adventure, the surprises, the interesting way this book was crafted, the brilliant characters and, probably most of all, the laugh-out-loud black but joyous humour. Because I really did laugh aloud…

”Come!”…
”Come? You just took my bloody sword. What am I supposed to use? Bad language?”

The character development is great and the weaving together of fantasy and science fiction gives us a cracking plot. I really can’t write any more without giving something away. So, please read Mark Lawrence…

…but just let me get in front of you in the queue…

A Book of Bones by John Connolly

I have one more book by Lawrence left to read, but my next book will be A Book of Bones by my absolute favourite author, John Connolly. I cannot wait to get started so will tell you about it in next week’s Reading Roundup.

Happy Reading to you all!

Best wishes,

📖📚📖📚📖

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Update 21/05/19

Apologies! I am unable to write a proper post today as I have been so very busy. The day has been spent sorting out my new laptop (think I have almost finished) and ironing, in between having loads of rests.

I will post the usual Reading Roundup tomorrow, all being well, and perhaps write up the laptop saga on another day. Now, I need to sort out what I am having for dinner and read more of my book.

Best wishes,

💚❤️💙💜🧡💛

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Update 20/05/19 with some new shoes!

The weekend was quite good as, despite me staying in bed rather a lot, I did manage to get some useful things done and had nice chats with both Lovely Husband and Elder Son. I read loads, watched some good TV and continued trying to sort out my new laptop (more about that debacle in another post).

I was looking through my rather large shoe collection the other day (accumulated over many years) and realised that most of my warm weather footwear is either quite old and worn, or heeled rather than flat. With my various health issues and weight gain, my ankles and feet are quite swollen and I cannot walk well in heels these days. My sandals can do another year at least – I have three good pairs in navy, tan and metallic. I did notice a gap in terms of summer trainers or other flat shoes. As I also have wide feet, I have some difficulties in finding nice footwear, although I have found some good sources. Hotter have a reputation for being “old lady shoes”, but I think that they have found some better designers in recent years. Their shoes are also very comfortable indeed!

As Hotter had a good offer in place when I visited their website (link in the sidebar), I ordered these two pairs. They arrived on Friday and are perfect for my needs…

“Daisy” and “Brooke” by Hotter

The trainer style is advertised as “polar white”, which I thought would be a bright white. It is, however, a kind of very pale greyish mauve and a really nice colour to fit with my clothes and accessories. The pull on style is in a soft navy nubuck and these will work very well with jeans or my linen trousers. In fact, I am very pleased with both pairs and have started wearing them in the house before I go out next time.

Well, that’s all for today!

Best wishes,

🧡💛💜💙❤️💚

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