Update 27/08/19 with a failed purchase

I have written quite often about my wardrobe colour choices and how they have changed a little since I grew out my grey hair. My main neutral/base colours are now navy and grey. I have quite a lot of clothes and accessories in navy, collected over many years. I now need to add in some more grey items, particularly as I have gained a lot of weight since I retired. When I was working, I owned grey jackets, skirts, jumpers and trousers, but these no longer fit and I have sent them to local charity shops.

So, over the last year or so, I have added some cashmere, cord trousers, earrings, scarves and a handbag in various shades or touches of grey or silver. I have been looking for some grey jeans for quite a while. As you may know, I am a huge fan of Lands’ End clothing, So was very pleased when I saw a great offer on some mid-grey stretch jeans. Here they are…

Mid-rise jeans in Imlay Grey by Lands’ End

Women’s mid-rise straight leg jeans in “imlay grey”. I thought that they would nicely fill the gap in my wardrobe.

They arrived this morning. I really like the colour, which goes very well with everything in my wardrobe, and the style, and the quality, and the (offer) price. But…

…they don’t fit me!!!! ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️

So, now I am feeling upset that my usual size at Lands’ End appears to be too small now. I hate this fatter body that I have and I must admit that I have been gloomy all afternoon. Oh well, I will parcel the jeans back up again and try to exchange them for the next size up and hope that does fit!

Best wishes,

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Update 26/08/19

I hope that you have had a lovely weekend and that those of you who, like me, have a Bank Holiday today are enjoying it. The extreme hot weather in my part of the world is causing me a lot of problems. I would really love to be at a beach, or even relaxing with a book in our back garden. Unfortunately, my lungs cannot cope in really hot weather and I have had to stay in my bedroom most of the time, with just a few forays downstairs.

I am trying so hard not to be jealous of the wonderful day trips and holidays that I can see on Facebook and Instagram. Of course, I don’t begrudge anyone having a great Summer, but it does hurt that I cannot do the same. I am really trying not to be a miserable grump!

Anyway, now for some more pleasant news. Last week, after I wrote the blog post about my new Massaccesi Diane handbag, I sent the link to Marco himself as he is trying to create a blog with his customers’ reviews. After I contacted him, I received a lovely reply. Then I began thinking that, perhaps, a copy of my original post, with all my personal stuff, would not be particularly appropriate for the Massaccesi blog. So I decided to edit and, hopefully, improve the post to fit with what Marco is trying to achieve.

The re-write was finished and I sent that, together with copies of my photos of the bag, to Marco by email and he then uploaded the blog post plus images. You can see it here.

My post on the Massaccesi blog

At the time of writing this post, there are three posts on Marco’s blog, each one reviewing a different handbag style. I may write some more for him about my Victoria, midi-Muse and midi-zip Selene, together with the other items I have bought: a key ring, a small pouch and a bracelet. It would be better if other customers wrote, but I have the time to do it!

Now, I had better get up and fetch some more water to drink before I melt away completely!

Best wishes,

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Update 22/08/19

This is only going to be a short post. I hardly slept last night and woke up at about 03.00 with a nasty cough. Today, I have been feeling very tired and my legs and feet have been really aching (probably shocked by actual walking!). I haven’t been at all well so Lovely Husband, acting as my personal trainer, banned me from trying to do my walk today.

I simply haven’t been up to writing either! Let’s hope that tomorrow is better as I want to attend counselling. I will plan a possible outfit tonight in anticipation as I am trying not to give in.

Some good news is that I have managed to get control over the codeine cough mixture problem. I am now taking half of the allowed dose and measuring it out properly with a medicine spoon. The bottle is in the bathroom and I am so pleased that I have got this far – over two weeks.

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 21/08/19

There will be only one Reading Roundup post this week, as usual. I have read two books, both very different. Here is the first one:

The Secret Chord by Geraldine Brooks

The Secret Chord by Geraldine Brooks was a real departure for me. This is a retelling of King David’s story. Here is the blurb:

Peeling away the myth to bring the Old Testament’s King David to life in Second Iron Age Israel, Brooks traces the arc of his journey from obscurity to fame, from shepherd to soldier, from hero to traitor, from beloved king to murderous despot and into his remorseful and diminished dotage.

The Secret Chord provides new context for some of the best-known episodes of David’s life while also focusing on others, even more remarkable and emotionally intense, that have been neglected.  We see David through the eyes of those who love him or fear him—from the prophet Natan, voice of his conscience, to his wives Mikhal, Avigail, and Batsheva, and finally to Solomon, the late-born son who redeems his Lear-like old age. Brooks has an uncanny ability to hear and transform characters from history, and this beautifully written, unvarnished saga of faith, desire, family, ambition, betrayal, and power will enthrall her many fans.

I gave the book three stars and wrote this review on Goodreads:

I remember quite a lot about King David from my childhood chapel’s Sunday School. The teachers there often told us the biblical stories about him. So, I was quite intrigued when I picked up this book at the Library. The tale was certainly interesting and fleshed out a lot of those old stories, but I had some difficulties with the Hebrew names – personal, place and tribal. The book was quite dull in places, but worth reading. When I had finished, I found myself reading more about David and his children – they were certainly flawed human beings!

Dreamwalker by J D Oswald

My second book of the week was a return to the fantasy genre: Dreamwalker by J D Oswald, #01 of the Ballad of Sir Benfro. This is the blurb:

The dragons of Glwad are dying. Persecuted for over two millennia, they’re a shrunken echo of the proud creatures they once were. And yet in new life springs hope: Benfro, son of Morgwm the Green, the first male kitling in a thousand years. Long ago dragons wrought a terrible wrong to the land, and now is the time for redemption.

Every young boy in the Twin Kingdoms dreams of being chosen for one of the great orders, and Errol Ramsbottom is no different. He longs to be a Warrior Priest of the High Ffrydd, riding to glorious victory in battle. But you should be careful what you wish for; it might just come to pass.

For almost a century there has been an uneasy truce between the Twin Kingdoms and the godless Llanwennogs to the north, but as King Diseverin descends ever further into drunken madness, his ruthless daughter Beulah takes up the reins of power. A time of war looks set to descend upon Gwlad, and it will surely draw everyone, man and dragon both, into its cruel game.

Once again, I felt that this book deserved three rather than four stars. Here is my review:

This book didn’t really read like an adult novel. Perhaps because the main characters were young, it felt more like Young Adult fiction? It was enjoyable enough and I will probably read more books in the series, as I have seen some of them in our local Library. The main ideas and the world building were good and I liked the way that the three principal protagonists all shared the same birthday.

I did have a major issue with how the dragons were written. The author did not really show them as any different from humans. Yes, their size was described and their scales and wings, but they appeared to move in a similar way to humans. Also, they had “hands” and “feet”! Their tails didn’t seem to affect them in any way. They had houses, sat in chairs and ate at tables in the same way as humans too.

So, some quite serious flaws, but still an exciting and interesting read.

Children of Time by Adrian Tchaikovsky

I am now reading a new book that I reserved at the Library, Children of Time by Adrian Tchaikovsky, so will return to that after a walk and a snack!

Happy Reading to you all!

Best wishes,

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Update 20/08/19 with a lovely purchase

I really love Massaccesi handbags. Yes, visitors to this blog will be well aware of that fact! With Brexit on the horizon, I decided that I wouldn’t be able to afford another bag. Also, Marco, the owner, had announced closure. Then he tried a kickstarter and I pledged for a gorgeous new design, not expecting but hoping that Marco would be successful.

Well, Brexit was postponed until the end of October, and Marco decided to keep going. I also had to work out if I would continue with my pledge…

I did continue. Having changed one of my neutral/base colours from brown to grey, I really wanted a handbag to fill that gap. This was the result when I opened the parcel last Thursday:

Diane handbag by Marco Massaccesi

This is Marco’s new design: Diane in light silver and titanium metallic pebbled leather. The shape is so lovely with all of the curves – can you see the clever M? The lining is silver and the fittings are in dark gunmetal. As usual, the quality is sublime. Everything, from the wonderful leather to the smoothly moving zips, from the precise stitching to the lining fabric and leather edged slip pockets, is really first class. The collage below shows some details:

Diane handbag by Marco Massaccesi

The front of the bag is in the two colours. The back, sides and base are in titanium; the handles and cross body strap are in the light silver. The metallic finish gives a lovely subtle sheen and is not too flashy or cheap looking. The size is a little smaller than my Victoria and midi-zip Selene, but still works well for me. When I carried the Diane last Friday, my handbag liner, full with all my usual paraphernalia, fitted neatly. My water bottle just stood slightly proud of the zip. No problem for me.

The next collage shows the pretty Diane with some of my Hermès’ gavroches:

Diane handbag by Marco Massaccesi

From the top: Bibliothèque, Savana Dance and Baobab Cat. These all have touches of grey.

Outfit of the day 16/08/19 with Hermès’ A L’Ombre des Pivoines scarf

Last Friday, I wore the handbag with my Hermès A L’Ombre des Pivoines scarf (see the collage above), which toned beautifully (Lovely Husband even noticed!), and some of my other scarves will also work well. I am thinking of my Leonard feather design mousseline and my Hermès’ La Jardin de la Maharani and also Cosmographia Universalis 90cm scarves. I also have several clothing items in shades of grey but could do with jeans in charcoal and, perhaps, a jacket.

Well, I think that will do for now! My small but lovely Massaccesi collection will probably see me out, if I look after it well.

Best wishes,

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Update 19/08/19

On Friday, whilst eating our pub lunch, Lovely Husband and I had an idea that might help me to commit to an exercise plan. Visitors to this blog will know that I have tried over and over again to raise my fitness levels, but have failed to progress, for many reasons. My fear of the horrible coughing attacks often prevents me from exercising and asthma, along with some of my other health issues, means that I am very sensitive to certain weather conditions.

Anyway, the idea was that I need an incentive beyond the normal benefits of exercise (e.g. losing weight, feeling fitter). The best, most amazing reward that I could think of would be a trip to see Younger Son in the Spring. I miss him so much and would love to see where he is living. At the moment, I am simply not well enough to travel that far and cope with being away from home. But, if I were fitter, I might be able to manage the journey and the hotel stay. Another wonderful outcome would be that I would get to see the sea again as YS lives near the coast – I haven’t seen the sea for seven years!

A second, also very important, incentive is that I would like to be able to go on a short trip with Elder Son. There are so many things that he wants to show me. In the past, we spent a lot of time together, travelling to local towns. I haven’t been able to do that for many years, which is sad, and ES is desperate for me to join him.

It seemed like a good idea on Friday, so I have tried to put the plan into action since then. On Saturday and Sunday I managed to walk around the area, building up a little bit each day. Today, I walked around the block in ten minutes, so I am hoping that I can do the same tomorrow.

Maybe, this time I will manage to do some exercise each day for a longer period and not give up.

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 16/08/19

It is very wet and gloomy here today – not at all like August – and there is an autumnal feeling in the air. So, a grey, navy and glacier blue outfit felt quite appropriate for the weather.

Yes, I did get to my counselling appointment today and then Lovely Husband and I went to a pub for lunch. We used to go to this particular pub regularly a few years ago, but our visits tailed off when new managers were brought in. We had a really lovely meal today, in contrast with a rather disastrous lunch a fortnight ago, so I am now sitting in bed feeling pretty chuffed!

Anyway, here is today’s outfit:

Outfit of the day 16/08/19 with Hermès’ A L’Ombre des Pivoines scarf

Today’s outfit:

  • Mid grey cotton mix short sleeved top – Lands’ End.
  • Mid grey cotton mix crew neck cardigan – Lands’ End.
  • Navy cotton stretch jeans – Klass.
  • Silver and abalone shell Art Deco earrings.
  • Aqua and grey beaded bracelet.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in glacier blue, grey, navy and red – A L’Ombre des Pivoines – Hermès. Tied using a bias fold to show off the grey peony.

I also carried a new accessory which went perfectly with this outfit – even LH noticed! But you will have to wait until Monday when I will reveal all… 😁.

I hope that you all have a lovely weekend.

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 15/08/19: part two!

As I missed writing last week’s roundup post, I decided to split the fortnight’s reading into two separate posts, yesterday’s and today’s. Here are a few more books…

Zima Blue and Other Stories by Alastair Reynolds

Zima Blue and Other Stories by Alastair Reynolds was a fascinating short story collection. Here is the blurb:

Reynolds’ pursuit of truth is not limited to wide-angle star smashing – not that stars don’t get pulverised when one character is gifted (or cursed) with an awful weapon by the legendary Merlin. Reynolds’ protagonists find themselves in situations of betrayal, whether by a loved one’s accidental death, as in Signal to Noise, or by a trusted wartime authority, in Spirey and the Queen. His fertile imagination can resurrect Elton John on Mars in Understanding Space and Time or make prophets of the human condition out of pool-cleaning robots in the title story.

But overall, the stories in Zima Blue represent a more optimistic take on humanity’s future, a view that says there may be wars, there may be catastrophes and cosmic errors, but something human will still survive.

I found some of the stories a little hard to read, as I have very little scientific knowledge, but the extra effort was worth it. I gave the book four stars and wrote the following review on Goodreads:

A really entertaining selection of short stories by a fantastic author of science fiction. As I am not a scientist, unlike the author, some parts of the stories were a little difficult for me, but I didn’t find that a problem as the overall plot of each one was so interesting and intriguing. These stories really made me think. I now need to find more books by Reynolds in our library catalogue or I may be forced to actually buy them!

The Alphabet House by Jussi Adler-Olsen

My second book was The Alphabet House by Jussi Adler-Olsen. I had already read one book by him, a crime novel, but this one was entirely different. This is the blurb:

British pilots James Teasdale and Bryan Young have been chosen to conduct a special photo-reconnaissance mission near Dresden, Germany. Intelligence believes the Nazis are building new factories that could turn the tide of the war. When their plane is shot down, James and Bryan know they will be executed if captured. With an enemy patrol in pursuit, they manage to jump aboard a train reserved for senior SS soldiers wounded on the eastern front.

In a moment of desperation, they throw two patients off the train and take their places, hoping they can escape later. But their act is too convincing and they end up in the Alphabet House, a mental hospital located far behind enemy lines, where German doctors subject their patients to daily rounds of shock treatments and experimental drugs. The pilots’ only hope of survival is to fake insanity until the war ends, but their friendship and courage are put to the ultimate test when James and Bryan realize they aren’t the only ones in the Alphabet House feigning madness.

This book was an interesting, but tough, read as it shone the light on practices during World War II that I knew very little about. It was worth at least three stars. Here is my review:

This is a difficult book to review. I am glad that I read it, but cannot use the word “enjoyed” because of the subject matter. The first half was exciting in parts and also particularly horrific with the account of the hospital and what went on in there. The second half was more of a conventional thriller, but was far too long and extremely violent. I think that it was worth reading, although it could have been better edited.

The Late Show by Michael Connelly

My third book, which I only finished a few minutes ago was The Late Show by Michael Connelly, part 1 in his Renée Ballard series. The blurb follows:

Renée Ballard works the night shift in Hollywood, beginning many investigations but finishing none as each morning she turns her cases over to day shift detectives. A once up-and-coming detective, she’s been given this beat as punishment after filing a sexual harassment complaint against a supervisor.

But one night she catches two cases she doesn’t want to part with: the brutal beating of a prostitute left for dead in a parking lot and the killing of a young woman in a nightclub shooting. Ballard is determined not to give up at dawn. Against orders and her own partner’s wishes, she works both cases by day while maintaining her shift by night. As the cases entwine they pull her closer to her own demons and the reason she won’t give up her job no matter what the department throws at her.

This the three star review that I have just written:

A solid Connelly book with a new central character, female this time. The plot consists of her working the night shift, as a detective, doing the first part of any investigation but never being able to see it all to the end. She has to deal with the fallout of a nasty event with colleagues in the past as well as the everyday sexism in the police force. Ballard is an interesting character, with an unusual lifestyle. As the book develops, she works through a number of cases from different angles, with one major investigation that involves police corruption.

I enjoyed the book and will continue to read more by the author.

Once I have completed this post I will choose my next book from the pile.

Happy Reading to you all!

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 14/08/19

It is two weeks since I last wrote one of these Reading Roundups and so I think that I will break up the long list of books into two posts, with the second one tomorrow.

Of Blood and Bone by Nora Roberts

My first book was Nora Roberts’ Of Blood and Bone, #02 in her Chronicles of The One trilogy. This is the blurb:

They look like an everyday family living an ordinary life. But beyond the edges of this peaceful farm, unimaginable forces of light and dark have been unleashed.

Fallon Swift, approaching her thirteenth birthday, barely knows the world that existed before—the city where her parents lived, now in ruins and reclaimed by nature since the Doom sickened and killed billions. Traveling anywhere is a danger, as vicious gangs of Raiders and fanatics called Purity Warriors search for their next victim. Those like Fallon, in possession of gifts, are hunted—and the time is coming when her true nature, her identity as The One, can no longer be hidden.

In a mysterious shelter in the forest, her training is about to begin under the guidance of Mallick, whose skills have been honed over centuries. She will learn the old ways of healing; study and spar; encounter faeries and elves and shifters; and find powers within herself she never imagined. And when the time is right, she will take up the sword, and fight. For until she grows into the woman she was born to be, the world outside will never be whole again.

I read the the first book in the series quite recently and wrote about it on here with a pretty positive review. I gave this book three stars and wrote this review on Goodreads:

I can’t really give this book four stars. Whilst I did enjoy reading it, Nora Roberts’ writing is very readable, and I did like finding out what happened to characters from the first book in the series, Year One, there are a few things that grated. All of this worship and anticipation of “The One”. A teen girl who is the ultimate saviour. The long drawn out training of “The One”. The Ancient British gods and goddesses. I have never liked the idea that humans should wait for a special leader who will take them out of misery, that way lies lots of danger.

I almost certainly will read the final book in the series to see how it all pans out, but won’t feel as if I am missing out if I don’t.

Thirteen by Steve Cavanagh

My second book was a complete change: Thirteen by Steve Cavanagh, Eddie Flynn #04. First of all the blurb:

THE SERIAL KILLER ISN’T ON TRIAL.

HE’S ON THE JURY…

They were Hollywood’s hottest power couple. They had the world at their feet. Now one of them is dead and Hollywood star Robert Solomon is charged with the brutal murder of his beautiful wife.

This is the celebrity murder trial of the century and the defence want one man on their team: con artist turned lawyer Eddie Flynn.

All the evidence points to Robert’s guilt, but as the trial begins a series of sinister incidents in the court room start to raise doubts in Eddie’s mind.

What if there’s more than one actor in the courtroom?

What if the killer isn’t on trial? What if the killer is on the jury?

This book definitely deserved at least four stars. Here is my review:

This was an amazing book and I read it in one go (apart from the first few pages). The central idea was very clever and the number of plot twists must be a record! The author also managed to squeeze more cliff hangers into one book than I have ever seen before. It is just about impossible to write much in a review of this book because of possible spoilers.

I am now going to look through our library’s online catalogue, hoping that they have all of Cavanagh’s other books so that I can reserve them all straight away! Highly recommended.

Sorry, no, I could not write a more detailed review as it would be impossible to do so without giving away too much of the plot!

The Gods of Guilt by Michael Connelly

Finally, I will tell you about a third book and save two more for tomorrow’s post: The Gods of Guilt by Michael Connelly, #05 in his Mickey Haller series. The blurb:

Mickey Haller gets the text, “Call me ASAP – 187,” and the California penal code for murder immediately gets his attention. Murder cases have the highest stakes and the biggest paydays, and they always mean Haller has to be at the top of his game.

When Mickey learns that the victim was his own former client, a prostitute he thought he had rescued and put on the straight and narrow path, he knows he is on the hook for this one. He soon finds out that she was back in LA and back in the life. Far from saving her, Mickey may have been the one who put her in danger.

Haunted by the ghosts of his past, Mickey must work tirelessly and bring all his skill to bear on a case that could mean his ultimate redemption or proof of his ultimate guilt.

And here is my review of the book, which I awarded four stars:

I always enjoy reading Connelly’s books and wish that my local library had more of them. Halley is an interesting main character and the rest of his “crew” are nicely worked around him. The courtroom scenes in this book were really well done, with lots of surprises on all sides. I must read more…

Definitely recommended.

As well as this series, Connelly is also famous for his Bosch books, which have also been made into a great TV series, which I love watching via Amazon Prime.

Tomorrow, I will tell you about the final two books of the fortnight, all being well.

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 13/08/19

I was well enough to go to the hairdresser’s and the library this morning – hooray! It was so nice to feel strong enough to select and put on a lovely set of clothing and accessories. So uplifting. And, of course, I really like having my hair done properly. The grey and white doesn’t photograph very well as the colours seem to disappear against my skin, but I am still pleased with the result. Here are the before and after photos:

Before and after my hairdresser’s appointment!

My scarf choice was the gorgeous Jaguar Quetzal by Alice Shirley for Hermès. These purple and lilac shades with denim blue, pink and yellow are simply wonderful and work well with my clothes and the Massaccesi Victoria handbag. I also wore my newish Hotter lace up shoes in polar white, which is a kind of pale greyish mauve.

Outfit of the day 13/08/19 with Hermès’ Jaguar Quetzal scarf

Today’s outfit:

  • Violet orchid cotton sleeveless vest – Lands’ End.
  • Frosted lavender cotton-mix crew neck cardigan – Lands’ End.
  • Navy linen-mix trousers – Isle Collection.
  • Crystal and silver stud earrings – John Lewis.
  • New iris leather and pale gold Vara wrap bracelet – Ferragamo. This matches the scarf’s rolled contrast hem.
  • Amethyst pebbled leather Victoria handbag – Massaccesi.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in mauve, violet, denim blue and yellow – Jaguar Quetzal – Hermès. Tied in an asymmetric wrap.

I am planning to write an extra long Reading Roundup post tomorrow to make up for missing last week’s.

Best wishes,

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