Outfit of the day 25/07/19 plus some purchases

I am going to show you my outfit, but not me wearing it! That’s because I am so hot and sticky and must look pretty awful 😂🤣😂!

I bought this turquoise linen dress from Pure Collection a couple of years ago. The colour is nice, but the weave is very loose and it looks like a sack on me. I don’t really care about that as I only wear it in the house and garden and it does keep me quite cool. It is good for wafting – a word used a lot on one of my favourite blogs: That’s Not My Age. As I have given up wearing a bra (I have always hated them and decided to throw them all away when I retired), the dress is opaque enough to hide anything that might be embarrassing too!

Turquoise washed linen tunic by Pure Collection

Turquoise washed linen tunic by Pure Collection

My only adornment today is the cute teapot, cup and saucer necklace from Bill Skinner that I bought a few months ago. The heat is even cutting down on my tea drinking as I have switched over to water, mainly!

Teapot and Cup necklace by Bill Skinner

I can never resist the Lands’ End sales, especially the main ones in the Summer and Winter. I really tried to ignore the present one and hung on until a few days ago, when I gave in. As a huge fan of The Vivienne Files blog, I have really taken on board some of her ideas about wardrobe planning. The colours I favour have changed a little since I grew out my grey hair, but I think that I am happy now with my choices. My two main base colours are navy and grey; my accent colours are bright blue, turquoise/teal/aqua, purple/lavender/lilac, and bright pink. Looking at my wardrobe, I realised that a couple of long-sleeved t-shirts in bright blues would be very versatile additions. Here they are:

Long-sleeved, supima, v neck, t-shirts – Lands’ End

The fabric is a very fine supima cotton jersey with a soft and silky feel. I will use both as t-shirts in Spring and late Summer/early Autumn, then as base layers in colder months and also in bed with more traditional pyjama bottoms. As they only cost £7.50 each, I think I will get my money’s worth out of them!

Apparently, tomorrow will be cooler. I hope so as I really want to attend my counselling session.

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 24/07/19

Well, last week’s reading was much more successful than the week before’s. I definitely chose the right books this time!

Year One by Nora Roberts

The first book of the week was Year One (Chronicles of the One #01) by Nora Roberts. Here is the blurb:

It began on New Year’s Eve.

The sickness came on suddenly, and spread quickly. The fear spread even faster. Within weeks, everything people counted on began to fail them. The electrical grid sputtered; law and government collapsed–and more than half of the world’s population was decimated.

Where there had been order, there was now chaos. And as the power of science and technology receded, magic rose up in its place. Some of it is good, like the witchcraft worked by Lana Bingham, practicing in the loft apartment she shares with her lover, Max. Some of it is unimaginably evil, and it can lurk anywhere, around a corner, in fetid tunnels beneath the river–or in the ones you know and love the most.

As word spreads that neither the immune nor the gifted are safe from the authorities who patrol the ravaged streets, and with nothing left to count on but each other, Lana and Max make their way out of a wrecked New York City. At the same time, other travelers are heading west too, into a new frontier. Chuck, a tech genius trying to hack his way through a world gone offline. Arlys, a journalist who has lost her audience but uses pen and paper to record the truth. Fred, her young colleague, possessed of burgeoning abilities and an optimism that seems out of place in this bleak landscape. And Rachel and Jonah, a resourceful doctor and a paramedic who fend off despair with their determination to keep a young mother and three infants in their care alive.

In a world of survivors where every stranger encountered could be either a savage or a savior, none of them knows exactly where they are heading, or why. But a purpose awaits them that will shape their lives and the lives of all those who remain.

The end has come. The beginning comes next.

I found this quick to read, and quite easy, despite the darker elements. I awarded it three stars and wrote the following review on Goodreads:

I rate this as 3.5 really. This is a strange book. I did enjoy reading it and I will almost certainly reserve the series at the library. It did feel a bit like two books cut and shunted together. The first half is more like a science fiction doomsday story (see what I did there: Doom/doomsday?). The second part brings in elements of fantasy (fairies and elves?). It all felt as if it had all been done before, but the book was entertaining enough to keep me reading and the plot twists were good.

So, not a bad book, and worth reading.

Wrath by John Gwynne

So, this was a reasonable book to start off my reading week. After this, my next book rose up into the stratosphere, in comparison! Wrath by John Gwynne is the final part (#04) in his The Faithful and the Fallen series. What an ending! This is the blurb:

Events are coming to a climax in the Banished Lands, as the war reaches new heights. King Nathair has taken control of the fortress at Drassil and three of the Seven Treasures are in his possession. And together with Calidus and his ally Queen Rhin, Nathair will do anything to obtain the remaining Treasures. With all seven under his command, he can open a portal to the Otherworld. Then Asroth and his demon-horde will finally break into the Banished Lands and become flesh.

Meanwhile Corban has been taken prisoner by the Jotun, warrior giants who ride their enormous bears into battle. His warband scattered, Corban must make new allies if he hopes to survive. But can he bond with competing factions of warlike giants? Somehow he must, if he’s to counter the threat Nathair represents.

His life hangs in the balance – and with it, the fate of the Banished Lands.

I read all four of these books over quite a short short period of time. They are all very long, but well-worth the effort, in my opinion, if you are a fan of Epic Fantasy. I really loved this final book and gave it the full five stars. This is my review:

I have just finished and put down this book and am writing this review before reading any others, so that it is my true reaction.

First of all, I have to say a huge “thank you” to the author, John Gwynne, for this book and the whole series. Wrath has now joined my “favourites”, where it will stay. The book is totally fabulous and a worthy and fitting end to a great series.

I have read a lot of good fantasy writing over the last few years, thanks to my local library, and this book must rank amongst the best. The very things that irritated me slightly about the previous books in the series, worked really well this time: the short(ish) chapters and the quick switching of view points. They really helped to keep the amazing pace of the plot going. I think that I probably spent the whole of this huge book (I read the hardback copy, so it is huge) with my heart thumping in my chest.

So, now I am sad. Sad that some favourite characters met their end, sad for the tragedies and pathos, but mainly sad that I have finished this book and completed the whole series. John, what can I read next?

Now, I will go and read some of the other reviews!

Ooh, I am very excited because John Gwynne himself has “liked” my review! He seems to follow his fans on Goodreads, which is nice. I can’t wait to read another book by him.

The Silence of the Girls by Pat Barker

My final book of the week was an ebook from our library’s digital service: The Silence of the Girls by Pat Barker. First the blurb:

The ancient city of Troy has withstood a decade under siege of the powerful Greek army, which continues to wage bloody war over a stolen woman—Helen. In the Greek camp, another woman—Briseis—watches and waits for the war’s outcome. She was queen of one of Troy’s neighboring kingdoms, until Achilles, Greece’s greatest warrior, sacked her city and murdered her husband and brothers. Briseis becomes Achilles’s concubine, a prize of battle, and must adjust quickly in order to survive a radically different life, as one of the many conquered women who serve the Greek army.

When Agamemnon, the brutal political leader of the Greek forces, demands Briseis for himself, she finds herself caught between the two most powerful of the Greeks. Achilles refuses to fight in protest, and the Greeks begin to lose ground to their Trojan opponents. Keenly observant and coolly unflinching about the daily horrors of war, Briseis finds herself in an unprecedented position, able to observe the two men driving the Greek army in what will become their final confrontation, deciding the fate not only of Briseis’s people but also of the ancient world at large.

Briseis is just one among thousands of women living behind the scenes in this war—the slaves and prostitutes, the nurses, the women who lay out the dead—all of them erased by history. With breathtaking historical detail and luminous prose, Pat Barker brings the teeming world of the Greek camp to vivid life. She offers nuanced, complex portraits of characters and stories familiar from mythology, which, seen from Briseis’s perspective, are rife with newfound revelations. Barker’s latest builds on her decades-long study of war and its impact on individual lives—and it is nothing short of magnificent.

I was so totally immersed in this book that I couldn’t put it down and read it all in one go. Once again, I gave it the full five stars and wrote this review when I was feeling very emotional:

This book is simply stunning. As a student, I read parts of The Iliad in Ancient Greek and ever since I have been interested in the story and have often read retellings. As a feminist I am, of course, highly aware that history is the story of the winners, particularly men. History is the story of royal houses, the aristocracy, wars and battles, heroes and villains. It is very rarely the story of women. Women are often nameless and faceless. They appear in history for a few scenes, then we never hear what happens to them.

In this book, Pat Barker gives a voice to Briseis, who is named in the Iliad. She tells us a part of her story and the story of other women enslaved by the Greeks as they battle before Troy. The men treat women like objects, like mere stuff, just as they do the treasures that they have plundered from conquered cities.

I read this book with tears in my eyes, thinking about the fate of so many women and girls. Older women watching their sons killed in battles, their daughters slaughtered, their babies killed. Young women parcelled off to brutal men, torn from their families and homes. Yet, tales like The Iliad are seen by so many as heroic and noble! Instead they are the stories of mass murderers.

I think I had better finish writing this before I weep once again. This is a brilliant book and highly recommended.

Now that I can read other reviews more dispassionately, it is interesting to see how differently some readers react to a book like this. Why not see for yourselves by reading some of the responses on Goodreads and other similar sites?

The Heavens by Sandra Newman

My next book, which I will tell you about next week, is The Heavens by Sandra Newman. Until then…

Happy Reading and best wishes to you all!

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Update 23/07/19: feeling better

I am much better today. Usually, I manage to keep a grip on my feelings and immerse myself in reading to try to hold the negative thoughts at bay. My weekly counselling sessions also help a lot as I am able to off-load to a neutral person.

Yesterday, everything came spilling out on someone who has their own issues and who puts them aside in order to support me. Lovely Husband is so very brave. He has had severe disabilities for many years but somehow manages to keep going for his family.

My sons also do their best to help me and friends, though they are online and not nearby, are also really appreciated. You know who you are! Thank you to everyone for your support.

Silver Lining by Kylir Horton

I hope that I can pull myself out of the gloom and post more positively for the rest of the week. As you can imagine, I doubt whether I will be writing Outfit of the Day posts this week. We are having a heatwave in the UK and I find weather like this almost unbearable. At the moment, I am lying on my bed wearing not very much – a selfie would definitely be inappropriate! I really wish I could live near the sea!

I will have some books to write about tomorrow for the weekly Reading Roundup post.

Best wishes,

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Silver Lining by Kylir Horton via Flickr

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Update 22/07/19: I had a meltdown

I try to be honest on this blog, after all it started as a way for me to keep track of my life after retirement. I never expected that anyone else would actually read my ramblings! So, apologies in advance for my blunt truth today and please skip this post if you are at all uncomfortable reading it.

Snow Depress by Vvyacheslav Boreyko

Anyway, I cannot write very much today as I am recovering from a dreadful coughing attack in the night then a horrible meltdown this morning. I just lost it – totally. I shouted and yelled at poor Lovely Husband then couldn’t stop screaming and crying. I am so miserable and fed up with my life, stuck here in the house all day, mostly in bed, with only LH and Elder Son to talk to. I am unable to talk on the phone because my voice is so poor, I can’t think straight because my concentration lapses and I am so hot. I feel so bleak and lost.

Right, I will stop writing and hope that I feel more positive tomorrow.

Best wishes,

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Snow Depress by Vvyacheslav Boreyko via Flickr

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Update 19/07/19

I had a really nice outfit picked for today – navy, turquoise and white clothing with very pretty jewellery in turquoise. Unfortunately, I was far too ill to go to my counselling appointment and have been in bed all day instead. Early this morning, around 5.00, I woke up in excruciating pain from acid reflux. Heartburn is such an apt description. The pain lasted until around midday until it finally faded away. Then I was so shaky and tired that I couldn’t even concentrate enough to read.

I do feel a little better now and have been reading my latest book all afternoon – it is great so far. Hopefully, things will improve over the weekend as I would love to be able to go out with Lovely Husband for a change. He is getting really worried about me and is feeling very down. I must try to cheer him up, if I can.

Anyway, I hope you all have a lovely weekend.

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 18/07/19

OK, so this is really yesterday’s outfit. Lovely Husband took me to the Library as I had some reservations to pick up. So that gave me the boost I needed to put on some nice clothes for once. Today it is warm and muggy and I am sitting on the bed feeling very hot and uncomfortable in pyjamas bottoms and a vest.

It was definitely not scarf weather yesterday. Instead, I wore this lovely oriental patterned kimono jacket and a pair of my most flamboyant earrings – those tassels!

Outfit of the day 18/07/19 with One Hundred Stars’ China Tree kimono jacket

Today’s outfit:

  • Navy cotton vest – Sainsbury’s Tu.
  • Blue and white modal/viscose kimono jacket – China Tree – One Hundred Stars.
  • Navy and white woven linen trousers – Isle Collection.
  • Blue and white oriental style tassel earrings – 6195shirley on eBay.
  • White enamel and silver leaf bangle.
  • Navy nubuck slip on shoes – Hotter.

Now I am going to pick up my new book – it is the last part of a series and I have been really looking forward to reading it. I may surface in a few hours…..

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 17/07/19

This situation hardly ever happens to me, especially these days. Last week’s books turned out to be very poor choices in that I didn’t enjoy either of them! Despite a good range of stock at the Library to select from, I made two mistakes. Luckily the book I am in the middle of right now is much better – I will write about that one in next week’s post.

The Penny Heart by Martine Bailey

My first book was historical fiction: The Penny Heart by Martine Bailey. Here is the blurb:

Manchester 1787. When budding young criminal Mary Jebb swindles Michael Croxon’s brother with a blank pound note, he chases her into the night and sets in motion a train of sinister events. Condemned to seven years of transportation to Australia, Mary sends him a ‘Penny Heart’-a token of her vow of revenge.
Two years later, Michael marries naïve young Grace Moore. Although initially overjoyed at the union, Grace quickly realizes that her husband is more interested in her fortune than her company. Lonely and desperate for companionship, she turns to her new cook to help mend her ailing marriage. But Mary Jebb, shipwrecked, maltreated, and recently hired, has different plans for the unsuspecting owners of Delafosse Hall.

I did enjoy the recipes written out between each section – they were interesting and were nicely woven into the narrative. In the end, I gave the book two stars and wrote this review on Goodreads:

This wasn’t a bad book, but it just wasn’t for me. The plot and characters were interesting enough, but the book just dragged. I struggled to around the halfway point and then simply skimmed to the end.

As I said above, it isn’t a bad book, just not to my taste. It is worth making up your own mind, perhaps reading other reviews on Goodreads would help.

City of Stairs by Robert Jackson Bennett

My second choice of the week was a return to fantasy fiction: City of Stairs by Robert Jackson Bennett (The Divine Cities #01). This is the blurb:

The city of Bulikov once wielded the powers of the gods to conquer the world, enslaving and brutalizing millions — until its divine protectors were killed. Now, Bulikov’s history has been censored and erased, its citizens subjugated. But the surreal landscape of the city itself, forever altered by the thousands of miracles its guardians once worked upon it, stands as a haunting reminder of its former supremacy.

Into this broken city steps Shara Thivani. Officially, the unassuming young woman is just another junior diplomat sent by Bulikov’s oppressors. Unofficially, she is one of her country’s most accomplished spies, dispatched — along with her terrifying “secretary”, Sigrud — to solve a murder.

But as Shara pursues the killer, she starts to suspect that the beings who ruled this terrible place may not be as dead as they seem, and that Bulikov’s cruel reign may not yet be over.

A tale of vast conspiracies, dead gods, and buried histories, City of Stairs is at once a gripping spy novel and a stunningly original work of fantasy.

Now, I did actually manage to finish this one, although I am wondering why I did! Anyway, once again I gave the book only two stars (totally against the flow of other reviewers on Goodreads), and wrote the following:

Just about all the reviews I read really rated this book. The cover and first few pages had hugely positive comments. So, I looked forward to reading, what I expected to be, a wonderful fantasy book. Now I am wondering why I bothered to plough through it? It was one of the most boring books I have ever read. A few scenes raised the excitement levels off the floor, but didn’t last long enough to grip me. The characters were either intensely irritating or dull, apart from Sigrud. The rest was turgid.

No, I won’t be reading any more books in the series. I am glad for the author that other readers have enjoyed the book. But I didn’t!

Well, I was being honest!

Year One by Nora Roberts

I am so pleased that the book I am currently reading is so much more my “thing”! I will give you my verdict on Nora Roberts’ Year One next week.

Haply Reading and best wishes to you all!

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Update 16/07/19

I am sorry for the lack of a post yesterday. We had quite a few things happening here and I became far too tired to write anything. Today has been pretty busy too and I am now in bed with a bad back!

Elder Son has been at home for a few days as he has been ill. Yesterday, he was starting to recover and that meant that he was driving Lovely Husband and me around the bend! For a number of reasons, I hope he is well enough to return to work tomorrow – peace and quiet being one of them 😀.

We began to notice, early yesterday afternoon, that our water pressure was very low with only a trickle coming out of the kitchen cold tap and nothing at all upstairs. LH and I went around our neighbours to see if they all had the same issue, which they did, and I then went online to find out more information. In the end it took until late evening for the water company to sort it all out. By then, I had filled every container I could find, holding them under a very slow trickling tap. Elder Son was flapping with anxiety and, for once, I was able to take charge!

This morning, the water was back with full force. I feel so lucky to live in a country with water piped into our homes and I think that it takes a disruption to the service to really make some of us appreciate our good fortune.

Today, I had to help Lovely Husband with a health issue, which I am not going to describe on here for obvious reasons. Let me just say that I now feel very tired, but pleased that I have been able to do something for him. He works so hard to support me with all of my problems and I don’t often get the opportunity to reciprocate.

Right, I now have a new book beside me and I am going to pick it up as soon as I have finished this post. I will try to write the weekly Reading Roundup post tomorrow.

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 12/07/19

I did go to my counselling session this morning! I got out of the house! Whoop!

Yes, I am back in bed resting this afternoon, as I now feel very tired, but I am so pleased. I am also happy that I was able to get dressed in a nice outfit and actually wear it outside. Let’s hope that I get more opportunities over the next few days.

Outfit of the day 12/07/19 with Hermès’ Cosmographia Universalis scarf

Today’s outfit:

  • Cerise cotton/silk round neck top – WoolOvers.
  • Cerise cotton/silk crew neck cardigan – WoolOvers.
  • Navy linen midi skirt – Isle Collection.
  • Cobalt blue crystal and silver earrings – Sonrisa Boutique.
  • Cobalt blue enamel and gold Agama bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Cream enamel and gold Byzantine bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Silk scarf, 90cm, in bright pink, sky blue, white and navy – Cosmographia Universalis – Hermès. Tied in a necklace knot – this is the best one that I have found for 90cm scarves in warm weather. The minimum amount of fabric touches the neck and the whole looks like silk jewellery.

I decided to wear my new scarf again, this time with bright pink and navy and I think that it worked very well. On a cooler day I would probably use a scarf tie that would show off more of the bright pink, which would look lovely with the cerise of these pieces from WoolOvers. I will add this Outfit of the Day collage to Monday’s Scarf of the Moment post when I have finished writing this one. Oh yes, I also wore my navy nubuck slip on shoes from Hotter and carried my bright blue midi-Muse handbag from Massaccesi.

I do hope that you all have a wonderful weekend!

Best wishes,

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Update 11/07/19

Well, I am having yet another day in bed. I really hope that I am fit enough to go for my counselling appointment tomorrow as it would be so nice to actually leave the house! I haven’t been out for well over a week.

I did go downstairs over lunchtime, so dressed in a very simple outfit of a navy cotton vest from Sainsbury’s Tu and navy and white woven linen trousers from Isle Collection. It is still so very warm and humid here and I find this kind of weather very trying indeed.

If I do go out tomorrow, I intend to wear my new scarf, Cosmographia Universalis, in a different tie and will take a photo to show you. I keep looking at all of the lovely colours and details. Many thanks to all of you who are continuing to visit the Scarf of the Moment page that I wrote on Monday.

Yesterday, I had a hunt around some of the online sales. Even though my birthday isn’t until November, I usually choose some nice items in the sales at this time of year. Lovely Husband is never sure what to get me, and our shops are very limited locally, so I am a bit cheeky and select things that he can give me! I also use the opportunity of the sales to buy birthday and Christmas presents well in advance.

I will wait until November to show you what I chose 😁.

Best wishes,

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