Update 01/12/17

I had hoped to have the Scarf of the Moment post about Les Secrets de Minos ready to publish today. However, I am finding it very difficult to concentrate and I really want to do this wonderful scarf justice. I have already mentioned that it fits so well with my love of the Ancient World, particularly as it is now 40 years since I visited Minos’ palace at Knossos in Crete as a student of Archaeology.

So, instead, I have decided that I will continue to work on the post for a while longer as it needs more photos and background information. Here is a photo of one of my scarf ties:

Les Secrets de Minos - scarf tie

Les Secrets de Minos – scarf tie

I hope that all my readers have a great weekend at the start of Advent for this year!

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 30/11/17

When it is this time of year, with crisp mornings and dark evenings, I feel like snuggling in thick wool jumpers and warm joggers. I also have a nice velvety top and bottoms in navy that I bought from Cotton Traders last Winter, which are so comforting to wear when it is frosty outside.

Today, it was again the turn of my lambs wool boxy sweater from WoolOvers, paired with a navy cotton base layer from Sainsbury’s. It looks smarter with this amazing jacquard green scarf: Daimyo Princes du Soleil Levant, by Hermès. I decided to put the 90cm scarf into a bias fold then twist it around my neck, finishing with a MaiTai horn scarf ring. The navy of the rest of the outfit is echoed on the scarf, together with a brighter blue, pink, gold and silver. I also wanted to wear it with my new ginkgo dangly earrings, but took them off when I realised that they were catching on the silk! Eek! I will have to wear them when I use a different tie with this scarf.

Today’s outfit:

  • Navy cotton v-necked base layer – Sainsbury’s.
  • Navy lambs wool boxy jumper – WoolOvers.
  • Navy cotton joggers – Cotton Traders.
  • Gold knot earrings.
  • Navy leather and gold wrap bracelet – Ferragamo.
Outfit of the day 30/11/17 with Hermès’ Daimyo Princes du Soleil Levant scarf

Outfit of the day 30/11/17 with Hermès’ Daimyo Princes du Soleil Levant scarf

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 29/11/17

Gosh! I have only managed to read two books this week (plus half of a third, but that doesn’t count). So I had better start this post and get back to my latest book 😄.

Fool Me Once by Harlan Coben

Fool Me Once by Harlan Coben

I had no print books left at the end of last week, until my library visit on Friday, so I turned to the ebook service and found Fool Me Once by Harlan Coben. Here is the blurb for this book:

Former special ops pilot Maya, home from the war, sees an unthinkable image captured by her nanny cam while she is at work: her two-year-old daughter playing with Maya’s husband, Joe—who had been brutally murdered two weeks earlier. The provocative question at the heart of the mystery: can you believe everything you see with your own eyes, even when you desperately want to? To find the answer, Maya must finally come to terms with deep secrets and deceit in her own past before she can face the unbelievable truth about her husband—and herself.

And this was my three star Goodreads’ review:

I enjoyed most of this book, but felt let down by the last quarter. I downloaded this as an ebook from our library service and read it quickly. The plot was fast-paced and exciting, with enough twists to keep it interesting, but I felt that the twist at the end was taking things just too far. In addition, none of the characters were at all engaging, apart from maybe the children, so I felt that I didn’t really care too much how it would all turn out.

I may read more by this author in the future because, according to Goodreads, this was not one of his better books!

When I had finished this book, I had a very fruitful visit to the local Library, picking up eight books, including three reservations. These are now nicely stacked on my bedside table.

Eagles in the Storm by Ben Kane

Eagles in the Storm by Ben Kane

The first from my new book pile was Ben Kane’s Eagles in the Storm, the last in Kane’s Eagles at War trilogy. The blurb sets the scene for the book:

Arminius has been defeated, one of the three eagles has been recovered, and thousands of German tribesmen slain. Yet these successes aren’t nearly enough for senior centurion Lucius Tullus. Not until Arminius is dead, his old legion’s eagle liberated and the enemy tribes completely vanquished will he rest. But Arminius is still at large, devious, fearless and burning for revenge of his own. Charismatic as ever, he raises another large tribal army, which will harry the Romans the length and breadth of the land. Into this cauldron of bloodshed, danger and treachery, Tullus must go – alone. His mission – to find and bring back his legion’s eagle – will place him in more danger than he has ever faced before. Can he succeed? Can he even survive?

I awarded this book four stars on Goodreads:

A really excellent ending to this trilogy and I wish I could award it 4 1/2 stars! The author has obviously thoroughly researched the historical background as the whole thing feels so real and the descriptions of army life fit very well with those of other authors, such as Bernard Cornwell.

These three books are gritty and violent with a lot of emotional scenes (the deaths of characters we have come to care for), leavened with a deal of humour. The female characters are very few, as you would expect with the subject matter.

It is interesting how the author makes a British reader empathise with the Roman side, rather than the conquered tribespeople. I would be interested to see what he would make of the story of Boudicca!

I think I will read more by Ben Kane as I really enjoy his recreation of Roman life, even if he is not so good with the women’s stories!

Tell Me a Lie by C J Carver

Tell Me a Lie by C J Carver

I am currently reading C J Carver’s Tell Me a Lie, the sequel to Spare Me the Truth, which I read last week. As I am already halfway through, and I only started it yesterday, you can tell that I am enjoying the book. More about it next week.

Best wishes and I hope you enjoy your own reading,

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Update 28/11/17 and Christmas plans

Nowadays, we organise present giving at Christmas in the same way as I just did for my birthday: I buy what I would like in advance and my chaps refund the money and give me the gifts on the day. Our two sons only ever want cash these days and DH never has any ideas at all and I try to find something interesting for him. That is getting difficult now as I can’t go shopping, other than online.

Our wider family has shrunk down since Lovely Husband’s and my parents died, as our siblings seem to have largely removed themselves from us since we got into so much difficulty. So our Christmases are very small these days, which makes me feel so sad, thinking about the lovely family times we had in the past. I keep hoping that our lads will eventually meet partners and start their own families to recreate the happy times we used to enjoy so much.

LH and I will do the best we can, though. He is a great cook and we all love chipping in together to create a fabulous spread on Christmas Day. All four of us help in our own ways: I am in charge of the decor, cards for my own family and friends, and wrapping presents; LH is in charge of food and drink, general organisation, and cards for his own family and friends; and our lads help when asked and do all of the tidying and washing up.

On Boxing Day, LH and I are going out to one of our favourite pubs for a meal, as we do every year. Usually the boys come with us, but they are both working this year and will then do their own thing for the rest of the holiday season. I do miss our trips around the country visiting family, which we did each year when our parents were still here.

Right, before I become too gloomy, here is a little hint which I may just show again at a later date…

Owl in the City silk scarf by Aspinal of London

Owl in the City silk scarf by Aspinal of London

Reading Roundup post tomorrow!

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 27/11/17

It is now two months since I last had my hair dyed and the grey has reached over 1 inches long. You can see it clearly, especially at the sides. The coloured parts are not looking good, I must admit. The texture is dry and frizzy and my hair only occasionally curls nicely when I wash it. I am hoping that my greys are in better condition as they finally grow out. When I have my next hair appointment, in about three weeks, I will ask for another short cut then at least I will get rid of the coloured hair as quickly as possible.

The good thing is that Lovely Husband loves my new shorter style and is happy about me growing out my grey hair. I have never seen him anything other than grey (now white), as he had a head of gorgeous iron grey hair when I met him in his thirties. He says that, of course, it is my choice what I do, but that he likes the idea of me being grey too 💕. Well, we shall see.

Wardrobe Colours chart version #03

Wardrobe Colours chart version #03

Another thought is that I may need to adjust my colourwheel for clothing and accessories. As I showed earlier in this blog, my two main neutrals (base colours in the chart above) are navy and brown/tan. I have a lot of navy clothes and accessories, but not so many in the brown shades. Perhaps I should swap them to grey? Although I love my tan accessories – hmmm. I will have to think about this for a while as I see what grey shade my hair transforms into, but I don’t really like colours such as beige with grey hair. My other colours, like purple, cobalt, coral and turquoise, would look great with grey hair.

I will also have to think about, perhaps, trying to wear makeup more often as, maybe, grey hair might make me look even more ill if I don’t brighten up my face. I have even thought about doing something to my eyebrows as they have almost disappeared! But I promise that I won’t go the same way that so many youngsters are doing with their “sharpie” brows, or anything like these…

Work in progress by Nuuna Nitely

Work in progress by Nuuna Nitely

I don’t know what to do or think! Any ideas from readers?

I haven’t managed to do much today as I had a really bad night with acid reflux, so I am very tired. I must admit that I look a bit wan in my selfie below and wish I had had the energy to put makeup on! The outfit is not one of my best, although the colours look better together than they might appear from the images. Black jeans would have set off the look, but, as I am getting rid of my black clothes, I don’t want to buy any! Navy had to do instead.

Today’s outfit:

  • Teal and black ombré acrylic jumper – Windsmoor.
  • Teal cotton roll neck base layer – Cotton Traders.
  • Navy cotton joggers – Cotton Traders.
  • Blue topaz and gold stud earrings – H Samuel.
  • Coral enamel and gold Agama bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Silk scarf in black, coral, turquoise and brown – Large Acanthus Leaf – Goddess and Swift via Etsy.
Outfit of the day 27/11/17 with Goddess and Swift scarf

Outfit of the day 27/11/17 with Goddess and Swift scarf

Best wishes,

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Image Credits

Work in progress by Nuuna Nitely on Flickr

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Outfit of the day 24/11/17

All in all it has been quite a satisfying day so far (it is about 4.30 pm at the time of writing, so a fair bit of the Day is left). I managed to go downstairs earlier than usual this morning, after helping Elder Son with a few tasks before he went to work. Lovely Husband and I then went out to the Library and I chose what looks to be a really diverse selection of books, in addition to three reservations which were waiting for me. After that, we drove to Elder Son’s cafe where I had a cream tea (very naughty indeed, but also very nice).

I wore the same outfit as yesterday, but changed the accessories. These soutache earrings are very striking so I don’t tend to wear a scarf with them as I think the overall effect would be too much!

Today’s outfit:

  • Royal purple, cashmere, short-sleeved top – Pure Collection. Similar image.
  • Teal cashmere cardigan – Pure Collection. The colour in the selfie is closest.
  • Indigo jeans – Klass.
  • Turquoise and purple soutache earrings – via Etsy.
  • Turquoise chip bangle – via Etsy.

Please excuse my face in the selfie. The effects of my illness are really showing! Oh, and if you like soutache jewellery, do have a look at this amazing page on Facebook: Serena Di Mercione. I wish I could wear her work and definitely would if I were younger as it is gorgeous.

Outfit of the day 24/11/17

Outfit of the day 24/11/17

I also took a picture of the lovely rose that I mentioned yesterday. Although not perfect, it really cheered me to see such a beautiful flower in November.

November rose

November rose

Best wishes to you all for a great weekend,

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Outfit of the day 23/11/17

I am quite pleased as I managed to go downstairs for quite a bit longer today. So that feels like progress. I am hoping to be well enough to visit the Library tomorrow as I need some new books to read.

The cardigan and top shown in the collage below must be my favourite cashmere clothes in my wardrobe. Both are from Pure Collection (link in the sidebar). The cardigan is a gorgeous shade of teal, darker and richer than in the image, and the short-sleeved top is a wonderful purple. I love this colour combination and will definitely replace these two items if the moths do any horrible damage. My little Zebra Pegasus gavroche is perfect with this outfit as the background colour in the scarf is only a few shades lighter than the cardigan.

Today’s outfit:

  • Royal purple, cashmere, short-sleeved top – Pure Collection. Similar image.
  • Teal cashmere cardigan – Pure Collection. The colour in the selfie is closest.
  • Indigo jeans – Klass.
  • Amethyst and silver earrings – Blue Nile. This outfit also looks great with my London Blue earrings from Blue Nile.
  • Purple leather and pale gold wrap bracelet – Ferragamo.
  • Silk gavroche in teal, blues, white and purple – Zebra Pegasus – Hermès.
Outfit of the day 23/11/17 with Hermès’ Zebra Pegasus gavroche

Outfit of the day 23/11/17 with Hermès’ Zebra Pegasus gavroche

I had a lovely surprise today. As I was gazing out of our back window, I saw a beautiful rose blooming from a climber that I had thought was dead. It was poking through a shrub, swaying in the breeze and was such a cheerful sight. As the light was fading, I couldn’t take a photo straight away, but as will try to get one to show you tomorrow, if I can.

Best wishes,

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Reading roundup 22/11/17

I read three very enjoyable books this week and have almost finished my pile of library books – must take a trip into town on Friday to get some more.

The Strangled Queen by Maurice Druon

The Strangled Queen by Maurice Druon

The first book of the week was The Strangled Queen by Maurice Druon, translated by Humphrey Hare. Here is the blurb:

The King is dead. Long live the King.

Philip IV is dead and his great kingdom is in disarray. It seems the fatal curse of the Templars is plaguing the royal house of France.

His son has been enthroned as Louis X; but with his disgraced wife Marguerite imprisoned in the Chateau Gaillard for her adultery, Louis can produce no heir with which to secure the succession. But neither can he marry again while she lives…

The web of scandal, murder and intrigue that once wove itself around the court of the Iron King continues to draw in his descendants, as the destruction of his dynasty continues apace.

And this is my three star review from Goodreads:

A strange book to read as it was a translation of a French work of the 1950s and also part 2 of a series. George R R Martin apparently endorsed the series as the “original Game of Thrones” and I can sort of see what he means by that. The book is set in early 14th century France and is full of the political machinations and intrigues of the royal family, the aristocracy and their followers. Towering politicians are toppled, others rise and women and the poor suffer. Like the modern world?

I am not sure if I will read others in the series, but may well do if I come across another in the library some time.

The book was interesting to read but also quite hard to follow in places because so many of the characters shared very similar names. The most common were Louis, Philippe , Margeurite and Jeanne, amongst others! I must say that I am glad that I was born in the 20th century as women had such a hard time in this period.

Orphan X by Gregg Hurwitz

Orphan X by Gregg Hurwitz

My next read was Gregg Hurwitz’ Orphan X, part one of a series. This is what the blurb tells us about the book, which I awarded four stars:

The Nowhere Man is a legendary figure spoken about only in whispers. It’s said that when he’s reached by the truly desperate and deserving, the Nowhere Man can and will do anything to protect and save them.

But he’s no legend.

Evan Smoak is a man with skills, resources, and a personal mission to help those with nowhere else to turn. He’s also a man with a dangerous past. Chosen as a child, he was raised and trained as part of the off-the-books black box Orphan program, designed to create the perfect deniable intelligence assets—i.e. assassins. He was Orphan X. Evan broke with the program, using everything he learned to disappear.

Now, however, someone is on his tail. Someone with similar skills and training. Someone who knows Orphan X. Someone who is getting closer and closer. And will exploit Evan’s weakness—his work as The Nowhere Man—to find him and eliminate him.

I really engaged with this book and wrote the following:

I am not sure if this lives up to all of the hype, but it was a jolly good thriller, particularly the second half of the book. The first part took up a bit too much space setting the scene and repeating elements, such as the posh vodka, rather too many times. Anyway, it was a good romping read, very exciting, and gripped my attention so that I read it in one day. Oh, and the interminable descriptions of weapons got in the way a bit. Just cut to the chase!

Now to reserve more in the series on the library website.😄

I now have three books waiting for me at the Library – ooh, the anticipation!

Spare me the Truth by C J Carver

Spare me the Truth by C J Carver

The last book I read this week was C J Carver’s Spare Me the Truth, part one in her Dan Forrester series:

Dan Forrester, piecing his life back together after the tragic death of his son, is approached in a supermarket by a woman who tells him everything he remembers about his life – and his son – is a lie.

Grace Reavey, stricken by grief, is accosted at her mother’s funeral. The threat is simple: pay the staggering sum her mother allegedly owed, or lose everything.

Lucy Davies has been forced from the Met by her own maverick behaviour. Desperate to prove herself in her new rural post, she’s on the hunt for a killer – but this is no small town criminal.

Plunged into a conspiracy that will test each of them to their limits, these three strangers are brought together in their hunt for the truth, whatever it costs. And as their respective investigations become further and further entwined, it becomes clear that at the centre of this tangled web is a threat more explosive than any of them could have imagined.

This was another four star read:

An excellent thriller with three strands to the story which eventually twist together to become one. At over 500 pages, it was almost too long, but the fast paced plot kept me gripped right to the end. It was also good to read a book where everything is nicely rounded off. Then I saw that there are more books to come, so I did my usual thing of reserving part two from the Library. Well worth reading if you are a fan of British thrillers.

This has left me with an unusual decision. I have one more book to read from the library, but I have since found out that the plot doesn’t make sense if you have not already read the previous books in the series. So, do I try to tackle it? Or, do I find an ebook instead from our library service’s digital offerings? Mmmm…

Well, I will tell you what I eventually decide next week.

Best wishes,

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Update 21/11/17

I must apologise for the missed post yesterday. Life has been very tough for the last few days. Over the weekend, we had the regular ASD problem which did not help my health issues at all or the family dynamic. I will never blame my chronic conditions on my son, he cannot help the meltdowns and tries so hard to make up to me afterwards, but my cough, in particular, reacts strongly to stress. So I ended up collapsing in a faint, then had a massive coughing fit with vomiting and other nasty side-effects and a further serious panic attack. This was followed by horrible weakness, exhaustion lasting several days and the return of the black dog.

I am feeling so useless and guilty because I cannot help my family enough, mainly Lovely Husband. He is buckling under the strain. I have also left the food bank in limbo. You may remember that, some months ago, I offered my help with their social media accounts. We had a meeting and I filled in the required paperwork, and also wrote a detailed plan. Then things went a bit pear-shaped and I am now in the position of having to finally make the decision as to whether I am really in a fit state to be able to do the job they need. I felt so much more optimistic when I offered, but, since then, my health has been so poor, both physically and mentally. But, if I say no I will be letting them down. I am already messing them around by not making the decision. I cannot make decisions at all!

So, I am now sitting in bed, yet again, feeling really sorry for myself and pouring out my angst on this blog. I will try to pull myself out of this mood before my next post!

My outfit today consists of my Sainsbury’s pyjamas (the nightshirt with the trousers shown below) not very exciting I know, but I am wearing a silk scarf 😄:

Pyjama collage #01

Pyjama collage #01

In a little while, I will get out of bed to plan something better to wear tomorrow. Perhaps something brightly coloured in cashmere?

Best wishes,

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Outfit of the day 17/11/17

I had yet another hospital appointment today, this time in the centre of the city, with my osteoporosis consultant. Because I have to take steroids, I now have the lovely side-effect of bone crumbling! Anyway, I see this chap once a year or so and we make a decision whether I need to take strong drugs that may help or may make things worse. Apparently more research is needed in this area, as the drugs can either strengthen the bones, so they don’t break too easily, or they can overdo things, so that the bones do break too easily.

Or something like that…it is all very confusing.

I asked him if there is anything I can do myself to help my bones (within my limitations and thinking that he would say I need to take more exercise). His answer was…

”Don’t fall over.”

Great…

So, I planned today’s outfit to cope with the cold outdoors and the inevitable overheated hospital. The only answer to that is to wear layers, of course, except that the hospital was sooo hot and stifling that I almost had to strip down to my camisole!

Today’s outfit:

  • Black cashmere v-neck jumper -Marks and Spencer.
  • Black cashmere and merino v-neck cardigan – WoolOvers.
  • Indigo jeans – Klass.
  • Cream enamel, gold and crystal earrings – Halcyon Days.
  • Animal print and gold bangle – Halcyon Days.
  • Modal scarf in animal print – Halcyon Days.
Outfit of the day 17/11/17 with Halcyon Days’ animal print scarf

Outfit of the day 17/11/17 with Halcyon Days’ animal print scarf

I wrote yesterday that I was rather fed up with my favourite cashmere clothing having moth holes, whilst the ones I don’t like so much seem to have escaped. Well, I was wrong about that. When I got home from the hospital and changed, I held this black cardigan up to the light and, guess what, there are at least four places where the little beggars have been feasting! Aargh! More moth repellent is needed in the wardrobe again and I won’t replace the cardigan.

Here’s hoping that all of you lovely readers have a wonderful weekend.

Best wishes,

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